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The numbers game 1-10, how do you actually perceive yourself? Me myself always being a realisic person sometimes to a fault has always thought of myself as average looking maybe rating 5, or 6.Some women find me really attractive others dont even notice me. Just as a certain food Im an aquired taste. What got me thinking about this was I was at night club the other night and I got alot of differnt friends this night I was with a group of guys I call them the "Pretty Boys" (all very superficial) you know the ones that could easily start up one of those boy band groups.
Also it was another average guy in the group with me. Now I fully understand the numbers game and Im suprised other do not. The other average guy who is also problaby a 5, or 6 was hitting on 8,9,10's(usally a person that 8 out of 10 people would say is attractive) all night and really wasn't having any success and I see this alot among men and women. I rarely see a high number with a low number usally very attractive people are attrracted one another. And Women are just as shallow as men I dont see FINE ass women at the club whith the average joe unless thats her friend or he has alot of money, usually this something men dont do, I dont care how much money whoopi goldberg has. Now when it comes to women I dont have a certain preference, Im more into her mindset, granted you do have to find the person atractive. But I guess my question is do you usually go after someone closer to your look level or are you the person that looks for the finest person in ther club or event?
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I'll bite and say I go for the exact opposite of me. I find the pretty boys treat me like total crap. They seem to have this "dime a dozen" mentality like they can replace me at any time and I dont like feeling like a disposable woman. My mum and friends, even my male friends are tired of telling me about how "homely" some of the guys I date look. They even make fun, but I honestly dont care, the homely seem to be the ones treating me with the most respect, and dont have much agenda behind their motivation. When I say homely I have dated overweight (300lbs+), not so cute, short, bald, etc... I actually am attracted to a man with a belly, I cant stand a 6-pack, just me. Yes I do have pics of me with these men living happy lives, etc... And all of my relationships have been long term ones. Last relationship I was in he was overweight, pretty average, and shorter then I was, we were in a 4 year relationship that was leading to marriage, but he was content with talking instead of doing. Nothing major, we are still friends.

The handful of times I have dated extremely handsome men, 2 have been models in national ads, they treated me like total DIRT. So just suffice it to say not everyone is looking for the finest person in the club... I know I'm not.

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