Not unless I was interested in having all hell break loose. Since this person became known to you through your coworker, you probably know all the juicy details through the coworker. You know when he cheated with that hooker down the street. How cheap he is. how unromantic he was on valentines day when everybody else in the office got flowers and maybe even how good/bad a lover he is. Why even be bothered? Unless it's a conquest type deal. Furthermore the minute your coworker finds out you been sniffing around...you've created an enemy IN THE WORKPLACE. something you

or should i say

I

don't need
Or maybe, just maybe, no one dogged anyone out and those two people just weren't compatible. One person's trash can be another's treasure. eyes hug

You don't know how the person that is meant for you will come into your life. Shame if you sent the right person for you away because of who they used to be involved with. nono

With all these arbitrary rules about who is & isn't dateable, I understand why so many people are single...
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Originally posted by ddouble:
Or maybe, just maybe, no one dogged anyone out and those two people just weren't compatible. One person's trash can be another's treasure. eyes hug

You don't know how the person that is meant for you will come into your life. Shame if you sent the right person for you away because of who they used to be involved with. nono

With all these arbitrary rules about who is & isn't dateable, I understand why so many people are single...
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You make some good and very credible points. I still think I side (slightly) with the earlier position that more can really go wrong w/ the workplace angle if the relationship goes south....

....but if she's foine enough, then that might just be a risk I have to take. Smile
I would hate to block a blessing too, but if it doesn't work you have an angry ass co-worker to deal with... and regardless of how much I may like the person there is enough drama in the workplace as is... that would only add fuel to the fire; I can take care of myself and defend decisions I make, but I don't like discussing my personal life in the workplace... nor putting myself on blast. I think I'd have to pass.

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