I have notice a disturbing trend among women in my age group and thats man sharing. Many of my boys are what I hate to say are Playas, they have multiple Women. Problaby my closes friend has 6 women(girlfriends). And I meet these women many college educated, beautiful, they seem to have common sense. But after I see how far these ladies stoop to have a man that other women see as desirable or has a certain image, I lose all respect for them. It doesnt only make them look foolish, but its also is a health issue. Espescially since black women are the leaders in catching HIV. I just think its sad and hope that women in my generation grow out of the whole group think mindset and start to think outside the box as far as what qualities are really important in a person. Like loyalty and respect,and for all the ladies that would never share a man and are looking for a good guy. I have a suggestion, look for the Diamnod in the rough. He may not "appear" to be at the top of the ladder of success, but hes quietly climbing the rungs.