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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by El Tigre:
Actually, I called no one a bitch.

I said the only thing you could do to me was be a bitch. But, you're spoiling for a fight because you really are one.


NOW, I said it...




"Bitch" is a word 'men' use......... to down grade women, whenever they feel threaten.




Nuff said....


Yeah that. Women too. lol
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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
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Originally posted by The one and only ME:
But how do you stop this cycle? My daily routine is mandatory for many reasons and I do want to find out right away if the brother is worth my time..... sck


TOAOM ...

Perhaps you should try adding a checkmark for "Potential" to your list! Smile Just because a man you meet isn't Mr.-Right-Now, doesn't mean that he can't/won't grow and learn to be one day!

If the brotha can get even 15 of the 20 questions right, he's doing better than most!! Eek So, when you're checking the report card, see if maybe those other 5 aren't at least partly negotiable ... or if there's room for him to grow into them!

Doing the perfect-at-first-sight thing is a near impossibility. But, it could be that he doesn't like this or that because he's never really tried it ... or he may learn to like that and this because you like it, and he's willing to make you happy! Smile

And not only that, but it gives you both a little more time to check each other out ... and what's the harm in a second or third date? You don't have to nip it in the bud after the first! (More good food and a couple extra good movies for you! Wink)

I have found that when I approach men not looking for what I want them to have or be about, but instead, look at who they are already and what they are about, I get a better view/gauge of the real him ... not my perfect version of them ... which probably doesn't exist anyway!


Thank you. Your advice is appreciated. I'm not good at the dating thing.
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Originally posted by Falak:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by El Tigre:
Actually, I called no one a bitch.

I said the only thing you could do to me was be a bitch. But, you're spoiling for a fight because you really are one.


NOW, I said it...




"Bitch" is a word 'men' use......... to down grade women, whenever they feel threaten.




Nuff said....


Yeah that. Women too. lol


Amen and Amen! thanks

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