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Originally posted by MidLifeMan:
Neither men nor women should be considering marriage until they are in their late 20 to early 30.

I feel that most are not ready to commit to marriage and shouldn't until matured more.


Amen! I think this is the wisest statement on this thread to date! I just don't see why it is such a bad thing for brothers to want wait till their thirties before getting married....now that I am 32...I am glad I am not married...at least I get my act together to be better prepared for the event when the time comes someday.
Since im getting older.....pursuing educational/career goals, i do understand, that it takes several years to achieve. Therefore getting married, may not be the best thing to do.

What im having problems with, is the fact that a lot of people, are not 'working' towards having any type of decent relationship, prior to moving forward with marriage.

I would think, that most people would want to date, and build a strong relationship, prior to getting married, raising a family etc.

A lot of us, are just dating around........and could careless, about building, or making it a goal to do this (marriage) in the future.

No one wants to commit....
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Originally posted by qty226:

A lot of us, are just dating around........and could careless, about building, or making it a goal to do this (marriage) in the future.

No one wants to commit....


Because people have more choices today than they did before and it's not just dating. People like choices...people want choices ...(they have 10 different kinds of KitKat, Twix, etc.) White chocolate, dark chocolate, lime, peanut butter,...
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Originally posted by ronin10:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:

A lot of us, are just dating around........and could careless, about building, or making it a goal to do this (marriage) in the future.

No one wants to commit....


Because people have more choices today than they did before so it's not just dating. People like choices...people want choices ...(they have 10 different kinds of KitKat, Twix, etc.)



Yeah, but just because i have all of those choices........doesnt mean that theyre good for me.... Big Grin
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by ronin10:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:

A lot of us, are just dating around........and could careless, about building, or making it a goal to do this (marriage) in the future.

No one wants to commit....


Because people have more choices today than they did before so it's not just dating. People like choices...people want choices ...(they have 10 different kinds of KitKat, Twix, etc.)



Yeah, but just because i have all of those choices........doesnt mean that theyre good for me.... Big Grin


True, true... but I feel that is why the dating world has turned into a battlefield.

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