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Originally posted by qty226:
Iron, you know better than that.....im a strong WOMAN, that can handle my own business.

I dont need someone to back me........i can handle this myself, and Gambit knows this.


What is there to handle? By some coincidence two brothers are right on point about the SAME sister. What are the chances of two brothers that have never interacted before meeting on this site, and living in two different states, having the same comments about the same sister? Here's the kicker part: I've never met you in person, and as far as what you've said, qty, ronin10 has had classes with you, so, he knows you in person.

Wow.

How is it, qty, that we both have the same notes on you? How is it now that, all of a sudden, ronin10 has destroyed your friendship because he spoke objectively? See how your true colors are showing, qty? A brother can only be considered your friend if he's completely obedient and supportive of you *smh*
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
Face it, ronin10, we can't help ourselves--we're bitter and angry because qty won't give us no coochie lol


You said it, not me, you jack azz.


I'm a jack ass that is constructively interacting with members of the opposite sex in real life and not complaining about being "lonely," and not being able to find anyone.

I'm the jackass that has never run away from an opportunity to learn about myself and women through dating instead of considering dating to be a waste of time if it isn't convenient for me.

I'm the jackass that was so intelligent, full of wisdom, and insightful that you followed me to this site.

Yeah, qty, you're right--I'm such a jackass and a loser.
What exactly are you trying to convence me of?

Im who i am.......

You and Ronin had a fields day, complaining, discussing my personal life, when the both of you have issues of your own.

I didnt say a word....i just let you two enjoy yourselves.

Again...im a 22 year old college student moving on to law school.......I will have a decent man in my life, get married and have a family.

Now what ever you two are doing at your ages.....IS your business. You being 35, and Ronin being 28, have no bearing on what im doing in my life..............and believe me i could care less.

.........And youre right, me and Ronin were friends, just like you and i were. But no more.......its no biggie. Its not the first time on this site, that someone has cut you off Ironhorse........and believe me, it wont be the last time either.

So you two continue to trade stories concerning qty. (im laughing)

QTY will be moving on.........trust!!

Again, I thank the men/women that made decent, sincere comments on the subject.
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
...I must be a Jackass and a loser, oh yeah, and narcissistic for also inviting Justin, a.k.a. Gambit to this site the same time I invited you, qty. This is all too funny.

Justin, you can follow qty all you want, man. It doesn't matter--it never mattered. You know the deal. Have fun you two.


This is what im talking about.........now whats your point?

Every man doesnt behave like you do.

Its amazing at the amount of fights that you get yourself into.....because you cant leave others alone.

Again.....you have other issues, on this site. Enjoy!!
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
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Again...im a 22 year old college student moving on to law school.......I will have a decent man in my life, get married and have a family.--qty


Damn--when are you going to stop repeating this SAME speech?


Every time you try to tell ME what my goals are.....and how much you KNOW me........you will hear this over, and over again.

Its my life........deal with yours.
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.........And youre right, me and Ronin were friends, just like you and i were. But no more.......its no biggie. Its not the first time on this site, that someone has cut you off Ironhorse........and believe me, it wont be the last time either. ---qty


You must be out of your mind, QTY. When have I ever given you the impression that I apply the rules of social interaction with people I know in the real world to interaction with total strangers on a website?

What has me cracking up is I don't know you from Adam, yet a guy that knows you in person has the same things to say about you that I've been saying about you for years.
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Every time you try to tell ME what my goals are.....and how much you KNOW me........you will hear this over, and over again.--qty


You can't fool me, qty. You're angry and hurt because, once again, you thought you had control of the situation of dealing with an older man but you were in over your head.

Why do I keep getting the feeling that you've been in this situation before--trying to pass yourself off as a grown woman when interacting with older men, only to get your feelings hurt because you over-estimated yourself and under-estimated the older men you've dealt with?
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
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.........And youre right, me and Ronin were friends, just like you and i were. But no more.......its no biggie. Its not the first time on this site, that someone has cut you off Ironhorse........and believe me, it wont be the last time either. ---qty


You must be out of your mind, QTY. When have I ever given you the impression that I apply the rules of social interaction with people I know in the real world to interaction with total strangers on a website?

What has me cracking up is I don't know you from Adam, yet a guy that knows you in person has the same things to say about you that I've been saying about you for years.


Like i said.....you both had an AX to grind, it was personal.....and you both have to get over it.

The bottom line.....with you is that, you have YET to find one woman that is willing to converse with you...........or find one woman that you havent cursed out or disrespected.........you did to a few on this site, and all of the women on BP.

You better believe.....if a woman on this site, or any other site.......disagrees with you, YOU will disrespect her.

This is my last note you to..........Just leave me alone.
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
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Every time you try to tell ME what my goals are.....and how much you KNOW me........you will hear this over, and over again.--qty


You can't fool me, qty. You're angry and hurt because, once again, you thought you had control of the situation of dealing with an older man but you were in over your head.

Why do I keep getting the feeling that you've been in this situation before--trying to pass yourself off as a grown woman when interacting with older men, only to get your feelings hurt because you over-estimated yourself and under-estimated the older men you've dealt with?


You make me laugh....... bs

You justify name calling, and then you are right back at it.

You'll live.
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This is my last note you to..........Just leave me alone. --qty


The ole' damsel in distress syndrome again. I thought you said you could handle yourself, qty? You aren't going to cry are you?


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The bottom line.....with you is that, you have YET to find one woman that is willing to converse with you...........or find one woman that you havent cursed out or disrespected.........you did to a few on this site, and all of the women on BP. --qty


Nice try but no cigar, qty--you can't play me. Half of the women you call yourself saying I cursed out and disrespected--you were right there making fun of them--passing emails back and forth with me, laughing at them, copying and pasting specific comments they made and sending them to me on yahoo messenger, while you thought your shit didn't stink.

I don't care if it's a man or a woman--If I agree with an opinion they've made I will agree. If I disagree with an opinion they've made I'm not going to lick their ass. If they choose to be combative with me I'll return the favor.

I've never believed in obediently kissing someone's ass just to stay on their good side--not on the internet and not in the real world
You kill me, qty--the harder you try to make me look bad the deeper hole you dig for yourself. If you want to drag blackplanet into this then tell the WHOLE truth.

I'm enjoying this, qty--I don't value trying to uphold an internet reputation--you do. This has always been entertainment, sister--it always was, always has, and always will be just that--entertainment.
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Originally posted by IRONHORSE:
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This is my last note you to..........Just leave me alone. --qty


The ole' damsel in distress syndrome again. I thought you said you could handle yourself, qty? You aren't going to cry are you?


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The bottom line.....with you is that, you have YET to find one woman that is willing to converse with you...........or find one woman that you havent cursed out or disrespected.........you did to a few on this site, and all of the women on BP. --qty


Nice try but no cigar, qty--you can't play me. Half of the women you call yourself saying I cursed out and disrespected--you were right there passing emails back and forth with me, laughing at them, copying and pasting specific comments they made and sending them to me on yahoo messenger, while you thought your shit didn't stink.

I don't care if it's a man or a woman--If I agree with an opinion they've made I will agree. If I disagree with an opinion they've made I'm not going to lick their ass. If they choose to be combative with me I'll return the favor.

I've never believed in obediently kissing someone's ass just to stay on their good side--not on the internet and not in the real world



You know, Iron just think..........why would an accomplished 35 year old educated man, talk and laugh about the plight of other women, with a 22 year old child?

Again, the only thing a person has to do.....is review your comments, forums, and disrespectful comments to other women/men.......who've decided not to return to this forum, because of your behavior.

I find nothing funny about your behavior.

I have things to do.......good night to you, and i hope you find happiness.
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Again, the only thing a person has to do.....is review your comments, forums, and disrespectful comments to other women/men.......who've decided not to return to this forum, because of your behavior.--qty


Still trying to destroy my so-called credibility aren't you, qty? Poor thing. These people on AA.org are the same people you said you were glad I shot them down because they "needed a taste of reality."

Like I said, qty, tell the whole truth--tell the truth about how you thought MBM was coming on to you. Tell the truth about how you thought HeruStar came on to you and how much of a conceited asshole you thought he was. Heheheheheheheh...we can go on and on, sister.

Where your immaturity and inexperience was your downfall is where you thought that you could outthink someone that has 11 years more wisdom and life experiences than you. You can't get the best of me, qty--it's hopeless.

You want to know the main reason why you're fighting such a losing battle in this little cyber quarrel we're having? It's because, all along, you were right there behind the scenes making condescending remarks about everyone I've had these so-called disagreements with.

Your immaturity and inexperience shows--you were right there in the lions den with me, laughing and clowning, all along you were making a fool of yourself--thinking I was going to be another one of your weak-minded supporters. Heheheheheh...
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Again, the only thing a person has to do.....is review your comments, forums, and disrespectful comments to other women/men.......who've decided not to return to this forum, because of your behavior. --qty


Again--and what's your point? Half the people on this site are conceited, pompous, arrogant, bourgie, prudes anyway. The rest rarely, if at all, frequent this site, and when they do they just lurk around or make sorry ass little one sentence remarks like, "Oh, you're right, I agree with your discussion. Good job!!"

Get the fuck outta here. People have been viewing my threads since the first day I came in here. People are still expressing their disapproval of my threads--do you see me crying in my hands about it? No.

You've got to try harder than that, qty. Why don't you tell them something private about me--something that would embarrass me? Oh, I forgot--I don't have anything to be embarrassed about because I don't hide secrets--I don't have any secrets to hide--what you see is what you get.
I hit a sore spot huh?


Im not going to address your silly comments about people that i dont even know, or converse with. I've never talked with anyone that you mentioned..............Im not going to address your comments about 'what' you think i said about other women.........I will on say this though.......Youre a liar, a disgrace to black men, and i can only hope that you do not poison the minds of good black men on this site.

You are a 'bitch' as most men here have called you........and i hope you dont bring this site down, as you have others, with your constant bickering, reaching down into hell to bring others down, because we disagree with you.

I will no longer be a member on here....I find your behavior annoying, childish, immature.......as others have also.

After conversing with you.... I pray for black men.

Peace
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Originally posted by qty226:
I hit a sore spot huh?


Im not going to address your silly comments about people that i dont even know, or converse with. I've never talked with anyone that you mentioned..............Im not going to address your comments about 'what' you think i said about other women.........I will on say this though.......Youre a liar, a disgrace to black men, and i can only hope that you do not poison the minds of good black men on this site.

You are a 'bitch' as most men here have called you........and i hope you dont bring this site down, as you have others, with your constant bickering, reaching down into hell to bring others down, because we disagree with you.

I will no longer be a member on here....I find your behavior annoying, childish, immature.......as others have also.

After conversing with you.... I pray for black men.

Peace


You hit a sore spot? WHAT SORE SPOT? BAAAAAAAA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!

Copy and paste where anybody has called me a bitch that I hadn't already labeled as being a bitch because they acted like some bourgie, elderly sorority women?

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I will no longer be a member on here....I find your behavior annoying, childish, immature.......as others have also.--qty


Oh will you please cut it with the theatrics? Try real hard to think through that immature rage you're expressing now. I was the one that found this site and braught you to it. What makes you think that I haven't found other sites to interact with different people on different levels with?

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....I find your behavior annoying, childish, immature.......as others have also. --qty


Damn, you never give up do you? Once again, you're fighting a losing battle playing that innocent bystander routine. Not only have you been in the mix on Blackplanet, you followed the ghetto ass people from blackplanet to ClubChill and got mixed up in arguments on that site too. One second a guy is the greatest thing since sliced bread and the next minute he's garbage because he didn't obediently lick your ass and keep you entertained.

You're a tired young sister, qty, and the sad thing is, you're just 22--going on 45.
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Originally posted by HeruStar:
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Why are brothers waiting until theyre in their late 30's to get



That's how long it takes some of us to know who we are.


Most of them don't want to hear that line. Too many of them think we're using that as an excuse to play the field and dog women out.

More brothers are out there trying to find themselves than a lot of sisters are lead to believe. Many of us brothers have to live a double life. Pretending like you got it all together on the outside while, on the inside, you're coming apart at the seams.

Men are trained to be tough and strong--any display of emotion other than what has been falsely considered implications of manhood is considered a sign of weakness.
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Originally posted by qty226:
If anyone on this site, knows how to go about deleting my profile, I would appreciate the help.

Im done here....

Thankx in advance.


nah... don't bail qty226. Smile agreed it's all gotten way too personal but I like to see a range of opinions including yours.
So let's all ignore the tit-for-tat and move on... up. Smile Time to consider the next topic in your radar, ok, and post a new thread.
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sometimes all it takes is for the man to let us in on that secret--art gurl


You're right--many brothers should be taught that it's okay to be vulnerable. In the same effort, many sisters need to be taught that brothers have the right to be vulnerable, which isn't a sign of weakness but in many cases a sign of courage and maturity.

Both brothers and sisters need to be re-educated on the issue of social wellness.

...and by the way, no, I don't have any problem expressing my feelings whether they're aggressive or whether they're passive--I'm comfortable with my femininity.
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Originally posted by qty226:
As we talk about the dating scene, im realizing that i would love to (in the near future), get married, and have a family before the age of 30. I guess i find dating to be annoying at some point........and a waste of my time. Brothas my age, are not ready........so my options are to date brothas that are older (which i have no problems with).

Why is this happening?


can't speak for the 'brotherhood', I can only speak for myself. I am newly 30 [June 19th] and have yet to find a woman worth all that effort. I WILL be married someday, but currently I find myself 'picking through the trash' of single moms, drama addicted, and other undesireables. I know I am picky, but marriage is a LIFETIME commitment...I know I must make a smart selection for the long haul. Qualities like education level, status, finances, etc. are not things that I really care to look for. For marriage, it is more about how she treats me/cares for me. that's the MOST important thing
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
I WILL be married someday, but currently I find myself 'picking through the trash' of single moms...



Qualities like...status, etc. are not things that I really care to look for. For marriage, it is more about how she treats me/cares for me. that's the MOST important thing


Dang. That was screwed up in more ways than one. It also seemed like you contradicted yourself. I know there aren't too many men out there who want to marry an already single mother, but likening them to TRASH? Come on. And if how she treats you is the MOST important thing, then why would you say something so disrespectful?
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
can't speak for the 'brotherhood', I can only speak for myself. I am newly 30 [June 19th] and have yet to find a woman worth all that effort. I WILL be married someday, but currently I find myself 'picking through the trash' of single moms, drama addicted, and other undesireables. I know I am picky, but marriage is a LIFETIME commitment...I know I


I can understand avoiding drama addicted and other undesireable women, but single moms = trash? I would think it's a little unfair to call single mothers trash...especially if you choose to get married later in life. There are a lot of single mothers and fathers in their late 20s, it's probably double that in the 30s.
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I am newly 30 [June 19th] and have yet to find a woman worth all that effort. I WILL be married someday, but currently I find myself 'picking through the trash' of single moms, drama addicted, and other undesireables. thing


The older you get, the less likely it is that you'll find a woman your age without a child, no drama etc....I tell all of my single 30-ish friends that they've probably already dated their "wife", but found some way to mess it up. Which is sad but true. I encourage you to review your dating history. You've probably already dated someone with all of the qualities of a "wife", but you probably couldn't see it due to immaturity or some other factor. All hope is not lost, but it behooves you to look at the past so you don't repeat your same mistakes....
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Originally posted by ThaWatcher:
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I am newly 30 [June 19th] and have yet to find a woman worth all that effort. I WILL be married someday, but currently I find myself 'picking through the trash' of single moms, drama addicted, and other undesireables. thing


The older you get, the less likely it is that you'll find a woman your age without a child, no drama etc....I tell all of my single 30-ish friends that they've probably already dated their "wife", but found some way to mess it up. Which is sad but true. I encourage you to review your dating history. You've probably already dated someone with all of the qualities of a "wife", but you probably couldn't see it due to immaturity or some other factor. All hope is not lost, but it behooves you to look at the past so you don't repeat your same mistakes....


Wow...excellent point!!!
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Originally posted by qty226:
As we talk about the dating scene, im realizing that i would love to (in the near future), get married, and have a family before the age of 30. I guess i find dating to be annoying at some point........and a waste of my time. Brothas my age, are not ready........so my options are to date brothas that are older (which i have no problems with).

Why is this happening?


Dating is not only annoying for women. Good topic.

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