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men choose the women that they are interested in. Women are the thumbs up or down judges on the progress of that relationship
quote:Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
men choose the women that they are interested in. Women are the thumbs up or down judges on the progress of that relationship
WRONG!It is always the female, men are just foolish enough to think their sweet talk did it(EGO). Believe me brother she saw you as soon as you walked in the door.
Men...most of the time.
Men are the choosers....!!
I thought that it is the ladies that do the choosing!
quote:Originally posted by folobatuyi:
I thought that it is the ladies that do the choosing!
Well, since more men ask women out more than women ask men out, the men do the choosing. Her choice is made after the man asks her out...she can accept or decline.
Women do the choosing they just let you believe that it was your idea. 
Both. It has to be mutual...
Women make the selection.
Women choose men the majority of the time.
A woman knows who she is willing to hook up with, as soon as dude walks into a room. The other guys, have to come with some SERIOUS mojo to beat that.
A woman knows who she is willing to hook up with, as soon as dude walks into a room. The other guys, have to come with some SERIOUS mojo to beat that.
Women do the choosing. She chooses to let you bring your game, or she chooses to shut you down immediately. Or she chooses to shut you down tomorrow, or next week, or next year. She has complete control of this game because she made the rules. The challenge for men is to first learn the rules (because she won't tell you what they are), then play by the rules (without letting our ego push us out of bounds), and still find a way to score points!
Consider this...How often do men get rejected by women? Constantly. Now, how often do women get rejected by men? Almost never.
Sigh...I love women. No other creature on Earth could make a man completely crazy, and have him actually enjoy it.
Consider this...How often do men get rejected by women? Constantly. Now, how often do women get rejected by men? Almost never.
Sigh...I love women. No other creature on Earth could make a man completely crazy, and have him actually enjoy it.
It depends on who's pursuing whom- man initiates, women choose/rejects or vice versa.
Gambit said...
A woman knows who she is willing to hook up with, as soon as the dude walks into a room.
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I don't agree with that. I wish I had a quarter for everytime a heard a woman say: "I ain't even wanna talk to that nigga, at first, cuz I thought he was ugly; but he started looking good to me the more I got to know him...he aiiight." (Usually, 9 months later, they both end-up in the delivery-room screamin "PUSH!!!", but that's another story.)
Don't give women too much credit...they're just as clueless as men are.
Gambit said...
A woman knows who she is willing to hook up with, as soon as the dude walks into a room.
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I don't agree with that. I wish I had a quarter for everytime a heard a woman say: "I ain't even wanna talk to that nigga, at first, cuz I thought he was ugly; but he started looking good to me the more I got to know him...he aiiight." (Usually, 9 months later, they both end-up in the delivery-room screamin "PUSH!!!", but that's another story.)
Don't give women too much credit...they're just as clueless as men are.
quote:Originally posted by Black Viking:
Women do the choosing. She chooses to let you bring your game, or she chooses to shut you down immediately. Or she chooses to shut you down tomorrow, or next week, or next year. She has complete control of this game because she made the rules. The challenge for men is to first learn the rules (because she won't tell you what they are), then play by the rules (without letting our ego push us out of bounds), and still find a way to score points!
geesh!
quote:Sigh...I love women. No other creature on Earth could make a man completely crazy, and have him actually enjoy it.
...and women love men for exactly the SAME reason!
who chooses who is largely irrelevant when most men desire an ongoing choice of a smorgasboard selection.
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Art_gurl said:
"who chooses who is largely irrelevant when most men desire an ongoing choice of a smorgasboard selection."
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AMEN TO THAT SISTER! Lusting after the vast selection of women is one thing...getting them to comply is another matter entirely.
Besides, men earned the right to have a smorgasboard, since we tend to be more proactive in the dating arena by taking initiative, attempting to be entertaining and conversating with you women just to get a "sniff". Most men don't have the luxury that women have what with your feminine wiles; you slap on some make-up, put on some tight/revealing clothes along with the veneer that you're always "ten steps ahead of us".
...Sorry, I'm venting. I need to calm the fuck down...OK, and we're back. Anyway..Yeah what art_gurl said. 
"who chooses who is largely irrelevant when most men desire an ongoing choice of a smorgasboard selection."
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AMEN TO THAT SISTER! Lusting after the vast selection of women is one thing...getting them to comply is another matter entirely.
Besides, men earned the right to have a smorgasboard, since we tend to be more proactive in the dating arena by taking initiative, attempting to be entertaining and conversating with you women just to get a "sniff". Most men don't have the luxury that women have what with your feminine wiles; you slap on some make-up, put on some tight/revealing clothes along with the veneer that you're always "ten steps ahead of us".
...Sorry, I'm venting. I need to calm the fuck down...OK, and we're back. Anyway..Yeah what art_gurl said. quote:Originally posted by Max:
Besides, men earned the right to have a smorgasboard, since we tend to be more proactive in the dating arena by taking initiative, attempting to be entertaining and conversating with you women just to get a "sniff".
...oh where's that violin playing icon
oh yeah right! quote:Most men don't have the luxury that women have what with your feminine wiles; you slap on some make-up, put on some tight/revealing clothes along with the veneer that you're always "ten steps ahead of us".
ahem!!! like you men don't have an ass-senal ( ) of tricks and wiles way you walk, deep honey soul voices, nice smile, cute butt and nice jeans, silky skin, nice arms... oh it's getting hot in here ! 
I better stop... .
quote:Originally posted by art_gurl:
who chooses who is largely irrelevant when most men desire an ongoing choice of a smorgasboard selection.
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That is soooooo not true. Lust is superficial. Any man who has been around the block a few times knows that there's nothing on the other side of the block but more of the same.
Touche art_gurl. Touche. 