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Scenerio #1
A man who marries 3 times and divorces twice, has 3 children from each of his marriages, (9 total) maintains a presence in each of his childrens lives, and meets all his financial responsibilities, or

Scenerio #2
A Polygamist who marries 3 women, has 9 children from his wives (3 ea) and takes care of all his wives and children under one roof

Which do you believe is the best situation? And why?

Kevin
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Neither one of them are the best scenarios, so neither one of them can judge the other.

HowEver, my personal belief is that if a Man is taking care of his children and being right by them AND he is being MindFul to respect the Woman/Women that are in his life and they don't have a problem with the others (be they children, exes, or other Women) that are in his life, then who is he wronging?

"Wisdom Is A Woman Not Judging!"
Originally posted Kevin1122
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Scenerio #1
A man who marries 3 times and divorces twice, has 3 children from each of his marriages, (9 total) maintains a presence in each of his childrens lives, and meets all his financial responsibilities, or



fro This scenario is more believable and realistic based on the high rate of divorce these days. And if a brotha can continue to be in his children's lives regardless of everchanging situation.....then I think that's real grown up. And models to his children that whatever is going on in life always keep the focus of doing the right thing....and everything else will work itself out. Cuz the goal is balanced children to become sufficient/rational/independent-thinking adults....so. One has to be realistic...and responsible to set the stage for successful human beings temporarily under parental fold. And that's the "real" key....whether or not the outside agrees with this arrangment..... well that's purely sematics and totally besides the point...but!

fro

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