Originally posted Kevin1122
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Scenerio #1
A man who marries 3 times and divorces twice, has 3 children from each of his marriages, (9 total) maintains a presence in each of his childrens lives, and meets all his financial responsibilities, or

This scenario is more believable and realistic based on the high rate of divorce these days. And if a brotha can continue to be in his children's lives regardless of everchanging situation.....then I think that's real grown up. And models to his children that whatever is going on in life always keep the focus of doing the right thing....and everything else will work itself out. Cuz the goal is balanced children to become sufficient/rational/independent-thinking adults....so. One has to be realistic...and responsible to set the stage for successful human beings temporarily under parental fold. And that's the "real" key....whether or not the outside agrees with this arrangment..... well that's purely sematics and totally besides the point...but!
