Was Your First A Virgin, Too?

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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
Did y'all figure it all out together or was he/she already experienced?

She was well experienced. I was what you would call a green pea. But, I showed her a thing or two about longevity...

My first was 10 years older than I was and definitely not a virgin...

her experience+my youthful enthusiasm= some truly memorable sex

Hey HonestBrother ....

Aren't there laws against that??

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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
Hey HonestBrother ....

Aren't there laws against that??

I ain't complaining - not then and not now...

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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
Did y'all figure it all out together or was he/she already experienced?

No, my first was well experienced; I was the virgin at 23. Absolutely no regrets...would do it the same way all over again.

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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
My first was 10 years older than I was and definitely not a virgin...

her experience+my youthful enthusiasm= some truly memorable sex

Intriguing yet strikely similar to my experience but with no age difference.

We were both virgins. It was not a particularly enjoyable experience for either of us.

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Originally posted by folobatuyi:

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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
Did y'all figure it all out together or was he/she already experienced?

No, my first was well experienced; I was the virgin at 23. Absolutely no regrets...would do it the same way all over again.

That's my take as well. I was a virgin until I was 20, and I would do it the same way all over again. One thing I've always been glad for is that my first was hot. I mean smokin' hot! She was also completely insane, but that's another story...

Had she tried to tell me she was, I would of called her a bold faced liar! Ain't no virgin gonna do the shit she threw on me......

I find this soooo interesting ... because so many men that I've spoken to (over years now) have said that their first was older than them!

Makes me think I'm missing out on something never having had me a virgin man!

By the same token, a lot of women I've talked to, their first was their "boyfriend" at the time and maybe only a year or two older.

Mine was two years older (I was 18), had experience, and had to sneak up on me (in the morning while I was asleep!) because I wasn't having it the night before while I was conscious! LOL Needless to say, it wasn't one of my most endearing experiences!!

But you live and learn!

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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
Mine was two years older (I was 18), had experience, and had to sneak up on me (in the morning while I was asleep!) because I wasn't having it the night before while I was conscious! LOL Needless to say, it wasn't one of my most endearing experiences!!

Ebony, that's awful! If that had been me, I'd have ripped his nuts off with a pair of pliers and removed his lungs with a spoon.

Some guys need a sound lecture... Other guys need a sound beating.

My teenage babysitter use to molest me, but i enjoyed it thoroughly,i was 11 or 12

He was much older and experienced, definitely not a virgin .

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Originally posted by Black Viking:
If that had been me, I'd have ripped his nuts off with a pair of pliers and removed his lungs with a spoon. Some guys need a sound lecture... Other guys need a sound beating.

Black Viking, your screen name is quite fitting... I'm tempted to add this to "powerful member quotes"

To be honest ... I don't remember my first time. So, it must not have been all that.

I do, however, remember the first woman that made me say, "whoa! Okay! This is what all the fuss is about."

I was 16 and She was 24. To this day, I still get a chill when I think of her.

I was, she wasn't and I almost passed out when the grand finish came upon me, but then I was only 15

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I find this soooo interesting ... because so many men that I've spoken to (over years now) have said that their first was older than them!

Who are these older, predatory women taking up with teen boys?? I would NEVAH think of sleeping with some teenager. And if I ever found out some older women was trying to bed my teenage son, I'd have her ass in the slammer for statutory rape so fast her head would spin. A grown man who's been around the block is hit or miss. What on earth can an unexperienced teenage boy possible do for you?! Unless you're into kids. As far as I'm concerned, they're pedophiles. Blech!

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My teenage babysitter use to molest me, but i enjoyed it thoroughly,i was 11 or 12

That's horrific. I am so terribly sorry to hear that.

I was but she wasn;t. I had thought she was but soon found out just how far off I was

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Black Viking ... I guess the shock made me not think of something like that .... but, thinking back, I kinda like that idea!! My only revenge was making him wait three months thinking he was going to get to do it again, and then breaking up with him ... and finding somebody who made the experience a whole other ballgame!

Frenchy ...

That's why the guys never tell!! At least not anyone of adult age!! I'd do the same as you to some old heffer pushing up to my baby ... but I don't think it's something a mom would ever know. And as long as the boy isn't an adolescent (younger than 15) it's probably some kind of initiation into manhood that they eventually benefit from.

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Originally posted by kresge:
We were both virgins. It was not a particularly enjoyable experience for either of us.

Ditto.

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Originally posted by HonestBrother:

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Originally posted by Black Viking:
If that had been me, I'd have ripped his nuts off with a pair of pliers and removed his lungs with a spoon. Some guys need a sound lecture... Other guys need a sound beating.

Black Viking, your screen name is quite fitting... I'm tempted to add this to "powerful member quotes"

Thanks, Honest Brother. I've always thought your screen name was very fitting as well.

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Who are these older, predatory women taking up with teen boys?? I would NEVAH think of sleeping with some teenager. And if I ever found out some older women was trying to bed my teenage son, I'd have her ass in the slammer for statutory rape so fast her head would spin. A grown man who's been around the block is hit or miss. What on earth can an unexperienced teenage boy possible do for you?! Unless you're into kids. As far as I'm concerned, they're pedophiles. Blech!

He probably wouldnt have said anything to you about it. Especially if he liked it

That's horrific. I am so terribly sorry to hear that.

Please dont feel sorry about that it was a pleasant experience, lol, and with all this hype about it the fact of the matter is it exceptable for older women/ girls sleep with teenage boys, most men in their teen years fantacized it and its more common than you think.

Not the best, she was older and we were both very drunk...

This did make me more sensitive to the needs of my next girlfriend who was a virgin. Sober and much better sex.

still would not trade either

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Who are these older, predatory women taking up with teen boys?? I would NEVAH think of sleeping with some teenager. And if I ever found out some older women was trying to bed my teenage son, I'd have her ass in the slammer for statutory rape so fast her head would spin. A grown man who's been around the block is hit or miss. What on earth can an unexperienced teenage boy possible do for you?! Unless you're into kids. As far as I'm concerned, they're pedophiles. Blech!

I THINK PEOPLE ACCEPT IT MORE THOUGH BECAUSE OF THE DOUBLE STANDARD. GROWN WOMEN CAN SLEEP WITH TEEANAGE BOYS BUT IT'S VIEWED AS A FANTASY BUT WHEN GROWN MEN DO IT TO THE TEENAGED GIRLS, THEN HE'S A PEDOPHILE.