...sure has alot of women posters!!! LOL Big Grin

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fortunately, i'd been emailing bruh to bruh for critical stuffs, i.e. i've replyed to numerous questions about my HOBO section for more details on money, mojo, and uplift. ...that almost makes this room pointless, huh?? Big Grin carry on

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[This message was edited by RadioRaheem on August 24, 2003 at 08:52 AM.]
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Originally posted by Nykkii:
rr- i understand your 'want' for this forum--but you have a group of very smart women on this board...and they're thoughts/opinions could be benificial, if not educational on a lot of topics.

not that you care--but thats my .02 cents

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i disagree. I think those women would be smarter if the LISTENED AND LEARNED about the things that men spoke about to gauge men's level of interest and understand a male point of view...that would make the most sense Wink..if they wanted to understand men

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Well, RadioRaheem ....

If you don't yet know the advantages of having a Black woman looking over your shoulder for you ... well ... don't worry, there's still time! Wink

(And just wait until you experience what it is you've been missing!) Big Grin

Additionally, some of us do come in here to "listen and learn" ... that's how we know how and when to make sure you are on the right path and that you stay there! Because that's what we do ... we take care of ours! brokiss

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Originally posted by Nykkii:
you guys are cute. why can't there be smart SINGLE, BLACK men who love smart, single black women like you here in seattle??




The best way to answer your question is to borrow a comment made a couple of weeks ago by a sports-talkshow host in NYC ("Mad Dog" from Mike and the Mad Dog), which he made referring to the Mariners after they made an unbelievable trade that benefitted my Yankees, whom the Mad Dog hates:

"They need to wake up! And smell the coffee!! There's a whole lotta coffee in that town. SMELL IT!!" You are quite sexy, Nykkii. Any guy in Seattle who won't come correct, is missing out!
Since this is a forum for brothers away from the prying eyes of females...... brosmile

My brothers a question that has come up many times before. "Can a man be too nice?"
the latest "miss right" who dumped me a month ago would often reveal to me past relationships that her men would go to knuckle city on her. The entire time she would tell me that she just didn't understand why I wasn't that way and when she did decide to give me the heave ho, she couldn't understand why I didn't get mad and upset sort of like she expected it. So can a guy be too nice or are there really women out there who feel that love really has to hurt.
I can't change who I am but maybe I need to change my thinking. I welcome all responses from the brothers and any others who may enter this room Smile
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Originally posted by ocatchings:
Since this is a forum for brothers away from the prying eyes of females...... brosmile

My brothers a question that has come up many times before. "Can a man be too nice?"
the latest "miss right" who dumped me a month ago would often reveal to me past relationships that her men would go to knuckle city on her. The entire time she would tell me that she just didn't understand why I wasn't that way and when she did decide to give me the heave ho, she couldn't understand why I didn't get mad and upset sort of like she expected it. So can a guy be too nice or are there really women out there who feel that love really has to hurt.
I can't change who I am but maybe I need to change my thinking. I welcome all responses from the brothers and any others who may enter this room Smile


many Black women are drama addicts, if you don't have enuff drama for them, then your relationship is over. Sad, but true

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Originally posted by ocatchings:
My brothers a question that has come up many times before. "Can a man be too nice?"



catch...these prying eyes have a question for you.

first i'm sorry your recent relationship ended, sincerly sorry, you're a great guy from what i know!!
now my question...was the ONLY reason the latest 'miss right' dumped you because you are too nice? were there other issues that played into it, and the too nice comment and the lack of physical knuckle contact the thing that stands out the most in your mind? if the only reason she gave is you being too nice--be happy things are over, sounds like she has some things to work on within herself before she's ready for a "nice guy".

secondly...i have a question for the board.

i hear a lot men talking about women in a way that says the more sexually confident, sexy looking, or uninhibited a woman is--the more desirable she is. billions of dollars are made based on selling the look, smell, feel, and idea of sex using women as the focus. sex sells. the Budwiser commercial featuring the TWINS comes to mind.

i also hear a lot of men say that when it comes time to get serious, or when they're looking for marriage material they want a woman who is classy on the outside, who has that pta mom look. a woman who is the direct opposite of a trashy hoe but who is also a freak behind closed doors. when that great woman during the day doesn't perform all the 'naughty things' in private she gets labeled a prude (or worse) and runs the chance of her man getting his freaky tendancies met elsewhere.

is it possible that there is a condition where men and women seem to want what appears GOOD/NICE/WHOLESOME, with a little bit of roughness or naughtiness to it--definatley not to the point of abuse or super sexually deviant, but just a little bit of bad boy/bad girl?

just wondering...


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quote:
Originally posted by Nykkii:
quote:
Originally posted by ocatchings:
My brothers a question that has come up many times before. "Can a man be too nice?"



catch...these prying eyes have a question for you.................


Hey Nykkii Smile
I think you may have hit it on the head with other issues. Actually I'm even more confused after the letter she sent me. Her reason for wanting to possibly end things was the fact I don't have any children and she may not be able to. She says she didn't want me to be left out of the chance to have enjoyed the birth of my child. I thought it was a weak reason so I told her so. The panic thing I can understand so I guess when I get back I will have to make a complete fool of myself to reassure her things will be ok. She also confessed that watching the news and not knowing whether I was alive or dead didn't help things at all.
All just another reason that I'm about to hang up the boots for good.........

For your 2nd question all I look for is honesty, which I feel is a basis for all good relationships. The materialistic things and good/bad image never really appealed to me and it got me in trouble quite a few times. People thought I was weird b/c I would say no to the "hot" female that was willing to "give me a go"....I just didn't and still don't find it appealing........ brofrown
quote:
Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
fortunately, i'd been emailing bruh to bruh for critical stuffs, i.e. i've replyed to numerous questions about my HOBO section for more details on money, mojo, and uplift. ...that almost makes this room pointless, huh?? Big Grin carry on

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[This message was edited by RadioRaheem on August 24, 2003 at 08:52 AM.]

I don't get it. why do you E-mail? Why not just post your reponse?

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Originally posted by IMMORTAL LOGIC:
quote:
Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
fortunately, i'd been emailing bruh to bruh for critical stuffs, i.e. i've replyed to numerous questions about my HOBO section for more details on money, mojo, and uplift. ...that almost makes this room pointless, huh?? Big Grin carry on

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[This message was edited by RadioRaheem on August 24, 2003 at 08:52 AM.]

I don't get it. why do you E-mail? Why not just post your reponse?

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i do post some things, for the improvement of the H.O.B.O.s I've traded emails with a few bruhs from here to expand alot of the convos here. For example, someone ask for more information about the HOBO topic of fixing credit and a dating quesion. I'm here for my HOBOs!!! my email is pbs1914jhu@yahoo.com

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Originally posted by negrospiritual:
you mean the person who ardently requested this room has relegated it to "almost pointless"?


not at all. This room simply had too many women with 'emotional' replies, i.e. dating women with kids, dating interracially, fat chicks, etc. These topics were intended to 'get a male' point of view, an honest assessment....however, it seems to have run amuck. Oh well. I guess I'll look as this room for the HOBOs and a few noisy others. God Bless you

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