quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
Funny that you mentioned 'black' love..I was at work last night, speaking with a young female Captain during some down time and she said "black love is oxymoronic, like black unity". You can tell she is done; and she's not a bad looking sista either. I have to admit, I feel the same way. I'm sure that black women look at me and if they find me attractive, they think "He'll have issues just like all niggas" and press on..hey, I cant blame them; think of numero uno first. But oh well, thats life, and I can't change things, so my advice to everyone is this: Dont dwell on it, you'll only get an ulcer and a big ass medical bill.
I think when a person has no issues, have never been in love........or in a bad relationship, its confusing, why this is happening.
But i agree......its best not to dwell on it....