Originally posted by msprettygirl:
The more I think about this situation the more i change my mind about this man. Someone mentioned it before and I'm leaning toward it now-that he is doing this for business, to ensure that you will be a repeat customer, trying to show an interest in you deeper than a consumer/producer relationship for the sake of the business.
I would have come to the same conclusion; however, this brother, along with a team of other administrative staff, manages
the restaurant; they don't own it. Therefore, regardless of the number of customers who patron the restaurant, they're going to get paid. Also, in my opinion, relating to customers in this way doesn't ensure repeat business, but keeps customers away.
Although I don't always agree with this brother's ideas, I'm starting to lean toward Brother Shango's opinion about the situation. I don't think this guy is gay, however. I just think that he expected me to do all of the pursuing.