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Sherri Shepherd’s estranged husband wanted to add sex, weight management clause to their prenup

Mon., May. 19, 2014 12:00 PM EDT
by Danielle Canada

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Sherri Shepherd’s estranged husband reportedly wanted to amend their prenup

Sherri Shepherd’s estranged husband, Lamar Sally, apparently had a list of bizarre demands in a proposed prenup amendment. As previously reported, Sally filed for divorce from “The View” star on May 2, and is demanding custody of their unborn son due July 28, via a surrogate.

Now according to TMZ, who dug up official court docs, Sally at one point had a list of oddities of which he wanted Shepherd to agree. Not long after the two wed in 2011, he presented Sherri with a proposed prenup amendment which included the following:

— “I respect my husband’s opinions and recognize him as the leader of our home.  I will always speak well of my husband.”

— “I enjoy having sex with my husband. I crave intimacy with him and want to be uninhibited and free in our lovemaking.”

— “MY BODY IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I STRIVE TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY BODY WEIGHT AND EXERCISE AT LEAST THREE TIMES A WEEK.”

— “It is my joy to submit to my husband as a way to honor God.”

Sally has since responded to the report and is denying ever making the demands. TMZ maintains however that they are in possession of the original document and it will more than likely be used during divorce proceedings.

“I did not want her to sign an amendment to our prenup,” said Sally in a statement. “We had a lot of love in our marriage. I still love her. To no one’s fault, at some point, we started to view marriage differently. I refuse to let her friend’s, advisors, hanger-on’s and the media sullen those memories.”

Shepherd has yet to speak on her impending divorce.

-danielle canada

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  Wow!  This is what happens when black people try to follow in the footsteps of white folks.  Sherry just should have had the baby naturally.  And she wouldn't had to worry about this brotha now wanting to take the baby.  It's money motivated if you ask me.  And do I feel sorry for the couple?  Hellllllllllllll no!  Sherry should have did it the old fashion way and she wouldn't have to worry about a damn thang..plus be in FULL control.  But she is hardheaded and like many blacks who tries to live life like massa.  Now she sees CLEARLY....it ain't WORKING.  But!

 “I respect my husband’s opinions and recognize him as the leader of our home.  I will always speak well of my husband.”

— “I enjoy having sex with my husband. I crave intimacy with him and want to be uninhibited and free in our lovemaking.”

— “MY BODY IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I STRIVE TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY BODY WEIGHT AND EXERCISE AT LEAST THREE TIMES A WEEK.”

— “It is my joy to submit to my husband as a way to honor God.”

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He must be a real insecure "man"/man-boy to take the time to actually write out these "demands" to his own wife in the first place.  

 

If he's doing what he's supposed to be doing as a man, there is so much that would just comes natural and there would be no need for him to write-out-verbatim such demands.  

 

It would be my guess that he, evidently, is lacking something to begin with that he already knows is going to interfere with a natural, loving and sensuous relationship with a woman.  

 

Sista Sunnubian wrote:  

He must be a real insecure "man"/man-boy to take the time to actually write out these "demands" to his own wife in the first place.  

 

  Yeah.  That's the way some black men are.  They have all these demands but lack on what they bring to the table.  I would be insulted if my dude told me to watch my weight and then have me sign an agreement on it?  I would go bananas.   See men talk all that shyte about what they want from us....but!  Don't wanna do a DAMN thing to earn it.  

 

If he's doing what he's supposed to be doing as a man, there is so much that would just comes natural and there would be no need for him to write-out-verbatim such demands.  

 

I think he was there for the money.  And home boy aint no looker either.  So what he got that he has to make all these ridiculous demands?  He ain't got no money either.  What the hell did Sherry see in him?  I hope she wasn't lonely and settled.  

 

It would be my guess that he, evidently, is lacking something to begin with that he already knows is going to interfere with a natural, loving and sensuous relationship with a woman.

 

That's cuz they took courtship outta the mix.  Hell I don't know what I would have done without courtship cuz I am an acquired taste.  As soon as I open my mouth sometimes....black men [well insecure black men] want to start whipping my ass cuz they cannot DEAL with what I have to say.  Cute don't work no more.  Ha!  When I was younger I could get away with it sometimes.   But now?  Some men are SERIOUS about their manhood.  And since I've always said what's on my mind popular or not....I'm kinda hard to handle for some men.  So for me?  Courtship was my savior.  Women today are too much in a rush to feel worthy....in that they say to themselves "I have to have a man so folks will see my value."  And when women think like that?  They get men like home Sally.  Did Sherry flea dip him?  Probably not.  Cuz if she had?  She would have KNOWN what kind of man she was dealing with from jump street. But! 

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Sista Norland:  OK Koco, what in the heyell is a FLEA DIP??

 

 

  It is a slang word that means:  finding out everything you can about a person you're dating before you jump in the bed with 'em or before you make a commitment like marriage.  It entails finding out if there are children, stalking ex-wives, crazy family members, a criminal background,[for the younger generation i.e. gang affiliations, STDS,  mutilple names ] if he/she are liars, trustworthy, a drug addict/dealer, an alcoholic, hustler, womanizer/man eater, violent and  if they are really the gender they say they are[no surprises]  etc,   You know stuff you need to know before you MAKE that move that can ultimately affect or alter your life.   In this day and age flea dipping is a must!But! 

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Thank you, Koco, 'cause I really didn't know. Most men are dogs (supposedly); dogs + fleas + flea dip (at the dog salon), was all I could put together.  Didn't make any sense!  I'm not hip to slang, very hip to expletives.  I'm through looking at males or any other humans, other than hubby & family members, at this stage of the game, so flea dipping won't be on my agenda.

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