Peace....


I had a very strange conversation today with a few of my employees..I was telling a guy about a guy who chokes his dates the first time they spend the night with him....This was strange to me..But one of the brothers suggested that quite a few women enjoy being choked because it supposedly intensifies intimacy...This is my first time hearing this doozy...

Is there any truth to this???


Whirling Moat
"Old fool! This is my hour. Do you not know Death when you see it? Die now and curse in vain!" And with that he lifted high his sword and flames ran down the blade.
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yes it is very true it's called autoerotic asphyxiation. When i was working at a psychiatric hospital we had two patients that came in for this (both teenagers-unrelated)-they were taken in for suicide attempts but we found out later it was for having this risky sex choking.
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Originally posted by msprettygirl:
yes it is very true it's called autoerotic asphyxiation. When i was working at a psychiatric hospital we had two patients that came in for this (both teenagers-unrelated)-they were taken in for suicide attempts but we found out later it was for having this risky sex choking.

As a college chaplain, I had to deal with a situation where a male student did die from this. Imagine having to deliver this news to his mother as well as going with her to the autopsy room at the hospital.
Peace....



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yes it is very true it's called autoerotic asphyxiation. When i was working at a psychiatric hospital we had two patients that came in for this (both teenagers-unrelated)-they were taken in for suicide attempts but we found out later it was for having this risky sex choking.



Interesting...

This brings to mind other forms of rough play some women enjoy during intimacy...Not as strange as choking, but it seems to be true that some women enjoy "rough play", like having their hair pulled really hard..Some enjoy being squeezed in various places...And then there is the woman who likes to wrestle and damn near fight...

Brothers know what it is like for a woman to play like this..You seem to have to keep telling her to stop playing yet she refuses...She punches, scratches, bites, and kicks, and then has the audacity to tell you that you are hurting her if you grab her, but as soon as you let her go she starts over again...And after all of this she is aroused...

What is the medical name for this condition???


Whirling Moat
I don't know about a medical term for it in regards to physcial health,but it could be considered a mental disorder: Sexual Masochism or Sexual Sadism.

sexual masochist-basically like to be hurt or humilated during sex. wipped, choked, spanked- it could be psychological or physical pain.

sexual sadists-basically like to be the one giving out the hurting whether it be psychological or physical pain.
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Originally posted by Saracen:
Peace....



What is the medical name for this condition???


Whirling Moat


Sillywomandon'tknowherlimitationsbouttogetherbutkicked itis....
My suspicion is that these are probably younger persons trying this. The incident I recalled was about 10 years ago. In conversing with peers at other colleges, they were seeing an escalation of the practice which they attributed to its proliferation in pop culture (violent/graphic porn, TV dramatic depictions, Internet, etc.)

It was an education. There were also students involved in erotic blood play. I knew one female that I had to refer to psyche counseling, because she felt her mind was being controlled by a sex partner who had ingested some of her blood.
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My suspicion is that these are probably younger persons trying this. The incident I recalled was about 10 years ago. In conversing with peers at other colleges, they were seeing an escalation of the practice which they attributed to its proliferation in pop culture (violent/graphic porn, TV dramatic depictions, Internet, etc.)

It was an education. There were also students involved in erotic blood play. I knew one female that I had to refer to psyche counseling, because she felt her mind was being controlled by a sex partner who had ingested some of her blood.


Eek
Peace....


Once again..very interesting...

Now...last question..

What does a woman mean when she says that she likes a man who knows how to take it???

What is the difference between "taking it" and violating a woman?

munch



Moat
Peace...



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Originally posted by negrospiritual:
bro Saracen...

what website YOU been visiting? Confused



Nope...This doesn't come from a website...The last question arises due to conversations I have had with women.

There are women who prefer a man to take sex from time to time instead of always requesting intimacy. They seem to imply that knowing how to "take it", is a masculine art.

Women have said that there is a difference between a woman saying "No" and actually meaning it, and that she wants a man who knows when "No" means no, and when it means "No" unless you are man enough to take it, or even "No" that really means "Yes"....


Some women will actually get upset if they say "No", or "Stop" and a man backs off...She may become dissapointed and say something like "damn, you are gonna just give up?"..

I think that women know exactly what I am talking about...

So...I was doing this----- munch-------



Whirling Moat
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Originally posted by Saracen:
Peace...



quote:
Originally posted by negrospiritual:
bro Saracen...

what website YOU been visiting? Confused



Nope...This doesn't come from a website...The last question arises due to conversations I have had with women.

There are women who prefer a man to take sex from time to time instead of always requesting intimacy. They seem to imply that knowing how to "take it", is a masculine art.

Women have said that there is a difference between a woman saying "No" and actually meaning it, and that she wants a man who knows when "No" means no, and when it means "No" unless you are man enough to take it, or even "No" that really means "Yes"....

And that's how some of us end up in jail. If she said "no", I'm not going to jail to think she was joking. I'm not serving time for nobody.
Some women will actually get upset if they say "No", or "Stop" and a man backs off...She may become dissapointed and say something like "damn, you are gonna just give up?"..

Well those women need to specify BEFORE they get intimate with someone else.

I think that women know exactly what I am talking about...#

So...I was doing this----- munch-------



Whirling Moat


# I think those women are full of shit, and they know it. They just happen to hide it better than we men can.
i have never seen such foolishness in my life being choked during sex lets be real whoever posted this YOU are the one who is intrested in it and probably engages in this activity! theres no need to hide behind ''your friend from work theory''


what woman wants a man to take sex from her? quote
Women have said that there is a difference between a woman saying "No" and actually meaning it, and that she wants a man who knows when "No" means no, and when it means "No" unless you are man enough to take it, or even "No" that really means "Yes"....

to be honest you just sound like a soon to be rapist or sexual freak who when a woman tells you no you somehow want to twist that into something else.ANY GROWN MAN I (USE THAT TERM GROWN LOOSELY ON THIS BOARD!)THAT HAS SEX WITH A WOMAN WHO CANT MAKE UP HER MIND AS TO ROUGH SEX VERGING ON BEING RAPED WOULD NOT WANT TO PUT HIMSELF IN THAT SITUATION! IF A WOMAN WANTS YOU BE ROUGH ONE MINUTE THEN TELLS YOU TO BACK OF THE NEXT AND SO FORTH SHE OBVIOULSY ISNT RIGHT AND IF I WERE THE MAN I WOULD EXPECT TO SEE THE COPS COME KNOCKING BECUASE SHE PROBABLY WILL SAY YOU FORCED YOURSELF ON HER!

you probably feel shame that you like to do this kind of thing and wanted to know how the wider population feel about it any woman or man who likes to be dominated and harmed during sex....well you have some issues good luck to you i hope the choking goes well! lol
honeychild I don't think he is twisting this women- saying- no- but- meaning- yes thing because I know women who like men to "take it" from them-several in fact. and the choking thing is very real, like i said, I've seen it before.
im not doubting that women or men like to do this i find it quite strange thats my opinion each to there own like i said b4 i hope the choking goes well!
Peace...

Honeychild, I can assure you that I have made none of this up due to some desire to choke women...

You kinda came outta nowhere with that accusation didn't you??? Confused

Perhaps you should refrain from accusing people that you know nothing about..

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you probably feel shame that you like to do this kind of thing and wanted to know how the wider population feel about it any woman or man who likes to be dominated and harmed during sex....well you have some issues good luck to you i hope the choking goes well!


Yeah that's what it is....

Or perhaps you don't have a clue because you are posting on a forum filled with grown folks and you are used to talking with kids your own age...



Sweetheart, go to bed...


Whirling Moat
first of all i never said that the choking of sex was a lie what i said was you are probably hiding behind your friend theory as you are the one who prob engagaes in it!

If you dont do this then then there is no need for you to take issue with me writing on a web page!

everyone is free to there own opinions
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Originally posted by honeychild07:
im not doubting that women or men like to do this i find it quite strange thats my opinion each to there own like i said b4 i hope the choking goes well!


Hello honeychild,

You are new to this board... but Bro. Saracen asks questions like this from time to time...

My brother likes to challenge and play devil's advocate.... I assure you that he is nothing of which you speak... the question sounds strange...

but what I gather from his question is that he'd like women (obviously not all)to reflect upon their behavior and mentality when dealing with men....

Unfortunately we often place ourselves in precarious situations... we often send mixed messages to men that can be quite frankly seriously harmful to us... misleading to men and potentially dangerous to the men themselves if they do not interpret our messages correctly...

I agree with you.... I find the practice disturbing in general... but there are women who superimpose pain with pleasure.... it's sick...

but our people can be sick sometimes...


Salaam....
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Originally posted by Khalliqa:

Unfortunately we often place ourselves in precarious situations... we often send mixed messages to men that can be quite frankly seriously harmful to us... misleading to men and potentially dangerous to the men themselves if they do not interpret our messages correctly...



Very true, and that's not always regarding sex, but romantic/platonic relations in general.

Being unclear about our aims and means can cause great personal distress and unforeseen collateral damage.

I've learned to be anxious for nothing, and not make too many fast moves.. Smile
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Originally posted by THEBIGDODDY:
quote:
Originally posted by Khalliqa:

Unfortunately we often place ourselves in precarious situations... we often send mixed messages to men that can be quite frankly seriously harmful to us... misleading to men and potentially dangerous to the men themselves if they do not interpret our messages correctly...



Very true, and that's not always regarding sex, but romantic/platonic relations in general.

Being unclear about our aims and means can cause great personal distress and unforeseen collateral damage.

I've learned to be anxious for nothing, and not make too many fast moves.. Smile


Kudos... tfro

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