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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Honest Brother.....

So this is what i gather........

When you make these statements.......these are because of your experiences. But when black women make these statements.............shes COMPLAINING.

Dont you think thats weird?

I dont make excuses, about why im single...........my only problem is that a lot black men are no longer interested in black women......me and other women, are feeling the brunt of this behavior.

But i keep telling you.......if you feel better about dating 'other' races, then do so!!!

I cant understand the problem???? Confused


Qty aren't you supposed to be in law school or something? Listening to what people ACTUALLY say - as opposed to putting YOUR words in their mouth - is a pretty important skill for a lawyer. Wouldn't you say?




Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused
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Originally posted by qty226:

Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


It's true. YOU SEEM TO NEVER ADDRESS WHAT I ACTUALLY SAY.

You just said

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Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


INSPITE of the fact that I have repeatedly said that I've dated EXCLUSIVELY black in the last few years. Inspite of the fact, I've said I would prefer to marry black.

Where I'm concerned, you've repeatedly shown yourself to be an extremely poor listener. You latch on to just enough of what I say to prove your point. And then the rest goes out the other ear.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:

Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


It's true. YOU SEEM TO NEVER ADDRESS WHAT I ACTUALLY SAY.

You just said

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Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


INSPITE of the fact that I have repeatedly said that I've dated EXCLUSIVELY black in the last few years. Inspite of the fact, I've said I would prefeer to marry black.

Where I'm concerned you've repeatedly shown yourself to be an extremely poor listener. You latch on to just enough to prove your point. And then the rest goes out the window.




Nope, you have justified your reasons for dating white women.........so continue to do so, and that'll help you to stop, complaining about black women.

Why complain when you have someone else to love?????
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).

So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.

Why should I........am not a man.

Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?

I think white women should know how YOU feel....Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Why complain when you have someone else to love?????


And oh yeah, thanks for illustrating the mental problems some of you sistas have tfro




Thats the best you got??

More excuses huh?

I feel you!! Smile



Why the hell should I bother wasting my time typing ish to someone who doesn't bother to actually read and comprehend it? You respond the same no matter what I say.

That's not an excuse. it's an objective fact that's clear to anyone who reads this thread.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Why complain when you have someone else to love?????


Take your bitterness somewhere else. If you can't have an adult conversation then maybe you need to go to the kiddy table Roll Eyes

I can't talk to somebody got cotton stuffed up in their ears.



HB....im not bitter. Believe that.....

Im a black woman, that will never allow ANYONE to boldly display affection for white women...........while degrading black women.



What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!
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Originally posted by qty226:

HB....im not bitter. Believe that.....

Im a black woman, that will never allow ANYONE to boldly display affection for white women...........while degrading black women.

Stop with your personal attacks!!


QTY, I haven't done or said a damn thing to "degrade black women"

Likewise I haven't "boldly displayed affection for white women"
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Take your bitterness somewhere else. If you can't have an adult conversation then maybe you need to go to the kiddy table Roll Eyes


You know...after fighting with you, i actually laughed so hard when i read this....!! lol spank

I actually remember being told to do this........!! lol

This is was too funny....
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Originally posted by qty226:
What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!


The ONLY statements I've made about black women are about people I've personally experienced.

You calling me a liar?

And I'm 35, educated, with no children.

Oh that's right. I'm a black man. So I'm supposed to have multiple baby mamas. I forgot Roll Eyes

So what? You're 23, educated and no kids? You want an award?

And I've made no "personal attacks" against you. Other than saying you never respond to what I ACTUALLY say.

Which is true.
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).
**Understood, but I thought you had some extra information to post about those you spoke about. I guess not. Maybe you are seeing what you want to see and no what is actually there. Smile***



So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.
**I deal in reality. I need not make any type of statements for anyone. It serves no purpose.**

Why should I........am not a man.
**I dont understand your point?? Are you suppose to 'cheer on' black women no matter what? I dont unerstand the gender divide here. All of the couples are mixed, why not cheer them all??



Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?
**I ONLY belong to this site. Are there white sites you can recommend?? I would gladly celebrate mixed doubles love there too Smile


I think white women should know how YOU feel....
**sounds good to me!!!...but my love is colorless. I can see beauty is all races**

Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
**WHERE / WHEN did I say this?? Are you putting words in my mouth?? Currently, I am dating a black woman [I stated this several times]. I guess you only want to personalize this discussion and add in untruths. Good luck with that. I'm finished!!


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Originally posted by Black Viking:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?


Black Viking, Qty is a law student. So we should help her out.

There's a difference in meaning (sometimes profound) between the terms "All" and "Some", "Many" and "Most"...
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).
**Understood, but I thought you had some extra information to post about those you spoke about. I guess not. Maybe you are seeing what you want to see and no what is actually there. Smile***


@ Radio.......how could you figure that.....i saw dark skin, light skin, over weight, athletic, etc....ALL with smiles on their faces.



So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.
**I deal in reality. I need not make any type of statements for anyone. It serves no purpose.**

@ Radio, if it serves no purpose.....then you should not comment on such!!



**I dont understand your point?? Are you suppose to 'cheer on' black women no matter what? I dont unerstand the gender divide here. All of the couples are mixed, why not cheer them all??


@ Radio, I commented on black women.......because im a black woman. Thats reason enough....!!


Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?
**I ONLY belong to this site. Are there white sites you can recommend?? I would gladly celebrate mixed doubles love there too Smile


@ Radio, youre the king of the internet.......im quite sure if you can find pics of women all day.......you can look for different sites, to show off your art work!!


I think white women should know how YOU feel....

**sounds good to me!!!...but my love is colorless. I can see beauty is all races**

@ Radio.......whatever floats your boat!!


Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
**WHERE / WHEN did I say this?? Are you putting words in my mouth?? Currently, I am dating a black woman [I stated this several times]. I guess you only want to personalize this discussion and add in untruths. Good luck with that. I'm finished!!


@ Radio, i dont care who you are dating....

I made a statement, and i will continue to stand by it!!!! Smile


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Originally posted by Black Viking:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?



Ok, so out of the 40% of black men that are married, a small percentage.....are married to white women? Thats fair to say...!


Honestbrother........its tearing you up, at the fact that i could careless about your reasonings for dating white women.

I keep telling you to be happy with your choice.

Why does this piss you off.......im actually agreeing with you.

Confused
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by Black Viking:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?



Ok, so out of the 40% of black men that are married, a small percentage.....are married to white women? Thats fair to say...!


Honestbrother........its tearing you up, at the fact that i could careless about your reasonings for dating white women.

I keep telling you to be happy with your choice.

Why does this piss you off.......im actually agreeing with you.

Confused


Whatevah ... let me know when you learn HOW TO READ and/or get an attitude readjustment... Then MAYBE I will have something else to say to you. I'm out of this "discussion"
I wrote this

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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!


The ONLY statements I've made about black women are about people I've personally experienced.

You calling me a liar?

And I'm 35, educated, with no children.

Oh that's right. I'm a black man. So I'm supposed to have multiple baby mamas. I forgot Roll Eyes

So what? You're 23, educated and no kids? You want an award?

And I've made no "personal attacks" against you. Other than saying you never respond to what I ACTUALLY say.

Which is true.


how was what you a wrote a response????
Then I wrote this

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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by Black Viking:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?


Black Viking, Qty is a law student. So we should help her out.

There's a difference in meaning (sometimes profound) between the terms "All" and "Some", "Many" and "Most"...
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Originally posted by ricardomath:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:

Listening to what people ACTUALLY say - as opposed to putting YOUR words in their mouth - is a pretty important skill for a lawyer. Wouldn't you say?


So is the ability to put words in somebody's mouth, while at the same time making it appear as if you didn't.

Razz


You have a point there....
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!
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Originally posted by Ouwe:
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Once and for all, WHO PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN ON THIS THREAD??????
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though



Now dumb i can deal with........just as long as hes not poor or a bastard.

See we're agreeing here.....!! Big Grin

Now please notice.....i've never called you a 'anything bad'.....i didnt take this to a personal level, by saying disrespectful things to you.....and you have the nerve to call me DUMB?
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though



Now dumb i can deal with........just as long as hes not poor or a bastard.

See we're agreeing here.....!! Big Grin


Whatevah.... he can have your sour azzz.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by Ouwe:
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Once and for all, WHO PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN ON THIS THREAD??????


Um nobody, I just stated my thoughts, I am new to the board, and I don't want to get into a debate about how I feel, it's only my opinion. Wink

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