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Originally posted by virtue:


Sigh... I never thought I'd ever say this but..... dang! With all of the trouble many sistas find with finding a black man that will appreciate them.... dang.... maybe it's time to look elsewhere....



Virtue



Don't worry, Virtue. If my experience with black women means anything, there are enough black men around to make a lot of sistas feel they can act a fool and run through as many of us as they feel like. Frown

Was that Roger Ebert or a wax dummy?
Robin Givens's man couldn't be American. She had to get a foreign dude. If she can (allegedly) take a punch from Mike Tyson Roll Eyes and she, her mom AND Don King take his money, what black guy (hell, what AMERICAN guy of any race) would want to get with her after her divorce?

That's Robin's mail order husband.
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Originally posted by Huey:
protest Btw, I don't think I would add Woody Allen and Soon Yi on the list. Yes, they're interracial, but come on. Soon Yi is Woody's step-daughter/wife. He adopted her, had sex with her, then married her and sired a child with her. Ewww!

She's screwed for life. She's her own grandmother now!


"You can dog and diss michael jackson all you wanna/ but woody allen molested then married his step-daughter/ the same press dogging michael's name/ show woody and soon yi at a playoff game" - Mos Def tfro
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Originally posted by detroit1:
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Originally posted by virtue:


With all of the trouble many sistas find with finding a black man that will appreciate them.... dang.... maybe it's time to look elsewhere....



The deceptive rhetoric continues......


I'm waiting for these same women to blame black men for global warming, the Iraq war, world hunger and any other negative connotation as to why some black women venture off into a cesspool of anti-Black male propaganda.
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


How do you know it's "love"?

How do you know these *men* aren't using these women for their own superficial agenda?
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Originally posted by virtue:


Sigh... I never thought I'd ever say this but..... dang! With all of the trouble many sistas find with finding a black man that will appreciate them.... dang.... maybe it's time to look elsewhere....



Virtue



Aw man, this is hilarious, because this past week, one of my colleagues, who is a published writer and economics professor; and is an African woman (Nigerian;hope she does'nt come to this site; yikes!), has intimated to me that she has met a caucasian male on line (match. com) and has suggested that I do likewise. I have 'a friend', but, she is pushing THIS. She met my friend and told me I could do better. wth! Anyway, I am curious, because she appears to be quite 'pleased' with her internet 'catch'. She met another caucasian male online, who wanted to marry her and move her to Tanzania! What in the world! This African woman and several of her 'sisters' from the continent, are all online with this objective. She is attempting to push me in this direction. She was married to an African man, had two beautiful children (now college age), and she says she wants 'more'. Whatever her definition of more is. She tried to get me to go with her to see ' Something New', and told me how much she enjoyed it. That it is the way for Black/African/American women to go. I told her, men are essentially men, and white men have that extra historical 'baggage' as far as I am concerned. I have met several caucasian males at work, gone out with two; and the jury is deliberating. I have known two other African American women (associates of mine) who met two men online (one caucasian; the other African American) and, they took the chance, met them, dated, and married/moved in with them. Halle Berry's guy is gorgeous; as is Robin Given's. Is'nt Given's guy Antonio Sabato? Anyway, my childhood'dream' for the African cultural utopia, is not to be. I mean, maybe it was just me, and a few of my close female friends, but we had this notion of a Black man for every 'sister', and a Black woman for every 'brother'; but as I've been seeing, non-black women have themselves at times four and five 'brothers' at once, and the 'sisters 0,zilch, nada.
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Originally posted by Dissident:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


How do you know it's "love"?

How do you know these *men* aren't using these women for their own superficial agenda?


Why would you assume that it isn't for love? Do you imagine somehow that these Black women aren't worthy of love?
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Originally posted by Dissident:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


How do you know it's "love"?

How do you know these *men* aren't using these women for their own superficial agenda?


Let me answer your question with a question..........

What makes you think they are not in love.........?

If they get married, family etc.....then who am i to dispute it?

My hopes are to find a black man that i can love, and give him several gifts, of beautiful black babies..............but if black men are not desiring this, what should i do?
What black man (in his right mind) wouldn't desire you, or these celebrities? Stop Playin!!!

As I was saying, Heather Headley disappoints because of her song 'He is'. I ass(umed) that(maybe because of the video) she was talking about a strong black man. Not this.....?
Anyhow, that one bites. I mean look at her, she's like pro-sista, and he's....well, "one of these (____) is not like the other one"

Her song used to send chills down my spine. This image ruined it for me Frown
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Originally posted by ricardomath:


Why would you assume that it isn't for love? Do you imagine somehow that these Black women aren't worthy of love?[/QUOTE]

1. There are some conversations white folk don't need to be involved in.

2. Sorry, but I don't feel obligated to justify or explain the inner relationships between black men and black women to a white person. I stopped doing that long ago.
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Originally posted by Dissident:
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Originally posted by ricardomath:

Why would you assume that it isn't for love? Do you imagine somehow that these Black women aren't worthy of love?


1. There are some conversations white folk don't need to be involved in.

2. Sorry, but I don't feel obligated to justify or explain the inner relationships between black men and black women to a white person. I stopped doing that long ago.


Alright then, why don't you explain it to the rest of us? Why do you assume that it isn't for love?
I'm reasonably sure that you don't think these black women are unworthy of love, so what is it?
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Originally posted by Dissident:

1. There are some conversations white folk don't need to be involved in.


That may be, but this particular thread wouldn't seem to be one of those conversations.

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2. Sorry, but I don't feel obligated to justify or explain the inner relationships between black men and black women to a white person. I stopped doing that long ago.


I thought that you were explaining inner relationships between black women and white men.
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Originally posted by ricardomath:
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Originally posted by Dissident:

1. There are some conversations white folk don't need to be involved in.


That may be, but this particular thread wouldn't seem to be one of those conversations.


I've found that conversations white folk don't need to be involved in simply don't interest them. If they're interested, for whatever reason, then they need to be involved.

Besides, this thread is about inter-racial couples. It would seem that ricardomath has an experienced perspective.
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Originally posted by Dissident:
2. Sorry, but I don't feel obligated to justify or explain the inner relationships between black men and black women to a white person. I stopped doing that long ago.


Hell, maybe somebody needs to explain the inner relationship between black women and black men to me. As far as I can see. There isn't one Frown
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Originally posted by qty226:Let me answer your question with a question..........

What makes you think they are not in love.........?

If they get married, family etc.....then who am i to dispute it?

My hopes are to find a black man that i can love, and give him several gifts, of beautiful black babies..............but if black men are not desiring this, what should i do?


I don't know if they're committed or not...neither do you. That was my point. You based your assumption of 'love' on a photograph. You were reading into things. How two people inner act in public may be something totally different in private. However I can say with certainty...from my own observations and life experiences...the few black women i've encountered who may head down that unforgiveable road of no return do so not for love but superficial rationale as I stated earlier... while perpetuate double standards in black men vs white men of dating/marriage material. I can elaborate but do you really want me too?

What do you mean by "if black men are not desiring this"? I see Black men desiring black women everyday. I see Black men marrying and having children with black women everyday. What planet are you from? This is the same scripted crapola I hear from a few disgruntled women who make excuses for their short-comings in the dating scene...and their self-hatred and emotional insecurities often exaserbates the problem. The defeatist psyche of some women always pollutes the minds of many. I'm sick of it! Honestly those same women who make excuses should take a hard look at themselves. More often than not they are the problem and not black men they frequently chastise.

You may find this strange but, black women I date don't have any issues with black men. Nor do they ever say they can't find good black men. However, I find it repugnant when I hear a black woman publically tear down black men (especially in the company of non-black people) and complain about black male ineligibility e.g., there are no good black men, can't find eligible black men etc.

In my lifetime I can say with absolute certainty that I have never ever, ever, ever, heard any white or asian woman say all white or asian men are dogs, or they can't find a good man of their own race. Nor do I know of or ever heard of any white or asian woman who's been in a sour relationship ever say they no longer desire to date or marry men of their own race. This phenomenom is only prevalent among black people. Why? A white man can murder his pregnant wife, sever her head off and throw her body in the ocean over a extramarital affair yet white women still love white men nor will they abandon white men. A black man repossess his credit card from a black woman and suddenly all black men are no good dogs. Go figure.

Lastly, I find it disturbing it wasn't too long ago white men systematically raped black women for sport... for power... the same women that belong to a race who were labeled 3/5 human by those who were doing the raping. I wonder if black women take comfort in knowing a system of supremacy is indoctrinated towards white male privilege which is the same system that destroys black families and black male masculinity? I also wonder if black women who erase high standards for non-black men do so with the assumption of non-black men courting black women unconditionally out of good faith? Not likely. It's not everyday a snivelling white man from the burbs courts a black tennis player from Compton....unless he has something to gain other than "love."
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Originally posted by Dissident:
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Originally posted by qty226:Let me answer your question with a question..........

What makes you think they are not in love.........?

If they get married, family etc.....then who am i to dispute it?

My hopes are to find a black man that i can love, and give him several gifts, of beautiful black babies..............but if black men are not desiring this, what should i do?


I don't know if they're committed or not...neither do you. That was my point. You based your assumption of 'love' on a photograph. You were reading into things. How two people inner act in public may be something totally different in private. However I can say with certainty...from my own observations and life experiences...the few black women i've encountered who may head down that unforgiveable road of no return do so not for love but superficial rationale as I stated earlier... while perpetuate double standards in black men vs white men of dating/marriage material. I can elaborate but do you really want me too?

What do you mean by "if black men are not desiring this"? I see Black men desiring black women everyday. I see Black men marrying and having children with black women everyday. What planet are you from? This is the same scripted crapola I hear from a few disgruntled women who make excuses for their short-comings in the dating scene...and their self-hatred and emotional insecurities often exaserbates the problem. The defeatist psyche of some women always pollutes the minds of many. I'm sick of it! Honestly those same women who make excuses should take a hard look at themselves. More often than not they are the problem and not black men they frequently chastise.

You may find this strange but, black women I date don't have any issues with black men. Nor do they ever say they can't find good black men. However, I find it repugnant when I hear a black woman publically tear down black men (especially in the company of non-black people) and complain about black male ineligibility e.g., there are no good black men, can't find eligible black men etc.

In my lifetime I can say with absolute certainty that I have never ever, ever, ever, heard any white or asian woman say all white or asian men are dogs, or they can't find a good man of their own race. Nor do I know of or ever heard of any white or asian woman who's been in a sour relationship ever say they no longer desire to date or marry men of their own race. This phenomenom is only prevalent among black people. Why? A white man can murder his pregnant wife, sever her head off and throw her body in the ocean over a extramarital affair yet white women still love white men nor will they abandon white men. A black man repossess his credit card from a black woman and suddenly all black men are no good dogs. Go figure.

Lastly, I find it disturbing it wasn't too long ago white men systematically raped black women for sport... for power... the same women that belong to a race who were labeled 3/5 human by those who were doing the raping. I wonder if black women take comfort in knowing a system of supremacy is indoctrinated towards white male privilege which is the same system that destroys black families and black male masculinity? I also wonder if black women who erase high standards for non-black men do so with the assumption of non-black men courting black women unconditionally out of good faith? Not likely. It's not everyday a snivelling white man from the burbs courts a black tennis player from Compton....unless he has something to gain other than "love."


AMEN! tfro
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"What do you mean by "if black men are not desiring this"? I see Black men desiring black women everyday. I see Black men marrying and having children with black women everyday. What planet are you from? This is the same scripted crapola I hear from a few disgruntled women who make excuses for their short-comings in the dating scene...and their self-hatred and emotional insecurities often exaserbates the problem. The defeatist psyche of some women always pollutes the minds of many. I'm sick of it! Honestly those same women who make excuses should take a hard look at themselves. More often than not they are the problem and not black men they frequently chastise."



Dissident....


I've mentioned on this board, that in my area.........TONS of black men are dating white women.

I've also mentioned that those that visit this city, are oftened shocked that this is taking place. (I went to a concert, Mike Epps, said he couldnt believe how many MEN date interracially here)

I went to a club last weekend......and stood around as black men........ran behind the white women. The club was filled with black men/white women. (ohh and believe me.......not to be vain, but i was on point! It didnt matter) I left!!

These pro ball players, entertainers....ALL have white wives, etc.........this went on for years, and NO ONE complained, except black women. (You mentioned the William sisters, who was called every name in the book. At least they interact with others that are on their level, financially. What male ball player do you know do the same?)

On this board.....several black men have stated that they date white women.

Now with all of this going on........what did you think was going to happen? (What happened was....this allowed white men the right, to approach black women.......and it happens everyday.......trust)

I recalled a year ago, black women complaining about this, and black men making excuses........black women are fat, black, ugly, uneducated, loud, etc.

Black women got tired of hearing this, and moved on.

For the most part.......MOST black men are OK with dating I/R.......and i cant understand why you feel its OK for them..........but not ok for black women.

I've always dated black men......because deep in my heart, thats who i love, and im quite sure a lot of black women feel this way.

But after seeing all of this........what did you expect black women to do?
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Originally posted by qty226:
I've mentioned on this board, that in my area.........TONS of black men are dating white women.
...............
On this board.....several black men have stated that they date white women.

Now with all of this going on........what did you think was going to happen? (What happened was....this allowed white men the right, to approach black women.......and it happens everyday.......trust)


I don't know about where you live but where I live I don't see tons of black men dating white women.

And if I'm one of the people on thee boards you're talking about (dating white women), I'VE ALSO said that I've dated black women exclusively (EXCLUSIVELY - that is turning down everyone else) for the last few years. And if I've dated white women in the past, it's because I couldn't find a black woman who

1) Didn't have a major attitude problem about black men

2) Wasn't look for a 6 figure earning fancy car driving man

3) Wasn't looking for a 6 ft. tall guy with a little (or even a lot of) thug in him

4) Wasn't a Jesus freak from Mars

5) Just was plain not interested for whatever reason.

I repeat, I've EXCLUSIVELY dated black women for a few years now and its been the most depressing dating period of my life. I'm tired of this crap.

I'm not saying that I'm Denzel. I'm not chopped liver either. But DAAAAYUM. My experience seems to suggest that Sistas have some major damn problems too......
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Originally posted by qty226:
HonestBrother

I may be wrong.......and please excuse me if i am. (I'll look for the thread)

But didnt you mention that you DATE white women, because you cant find a decent black woman?

Confused

You have issues with black women dating/marrying white men?? Confused


You can date whoever you want. But don't do it on the basis of some BS (No good black men, etc). Do it because that's what you want to do.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
I've mentioned on this board, that in my area.........TONS of black men are dating white women.
...............
On this board.....several black men have stated that they date white women.

Now with all of this going on........what did you think was going to happen? (What happened was....this allowed white men the right, to approach black women.......and it happens everyday.......trust)


I don't know about where you live but where I live I don't see tons of black men dating white women.

And if I'm one of the people on thee boards you're talking about (dating white women), I'VE ALSO said that I've dated black women exclusively (EXCLUSIVELY - that is turning down everyone else) for the last few years. And if I've dated white women in the past, it's because I couldn't find a black woman who

1) Didn't have a major attitude problem about black men

2) Wasn't look for a 6 figure earning fancy car driving man

3) Wasn't looking for a 6 ft. tall guy with a little (or even a lot of) thug in him

4) Wasn't a Jesus freak from Mars

5) Just was plain not interested for whatever reason.

I repeat, I've EXCLUSIVELY dated black women for a few years now and its been the most depressing dating period of my life. I'm tired of this crap.

I'm not saying that I'm Denzel. I'm not chopped liver either. But DAAAAYUM. My experience seems to suggest that Sistas have some major damn problems too......




So i can say the same about you, that Dissident, is saying about black women........??

Youre making excuses!!! ???????
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
I've mentioned on this board, that in my area.........TONS of black men are dating white women.
...............
On this board.....several black men have stated that they date white women.

Now with all of this going on........what did you think was going to happen? (What happened was....this allowed white men the right, to approach black women.......and it happens everyday.......trust)


I don't know about where you live but where I live I don't see tons of black men dating white women.

And if I'm one of the people on these boards you're talking about (dating white women), I'VE ALSO said that I've dated black women exclusively (EXCLUSIVELY - that is turning down everyone else) for the last few years. And if I've dated white women in the past, it's because I couldn't find a black woman who

1) Didn't have a major attitude problem about black men

2) Wasn't look for a 6 figure earning fancy car driving man

3) Wasn't looking for a 6 ft. tall guy with a little (or even a lot of) thug in him

4) Wasn't a Jesus freak from Mars

5) Just was plain not interested for whatever reason.

I repeat, I've EXCLUSIVELY dated black women for a few years now and its been the most depressing dating period of my life. I'm tired of this crap.

I'm not saying that I'm Denzel. I'm not chopped liver either. But DAAAAYUM. My experience seems to suggest that Sistas have some major damn problems too......




So i can say the same about you, that Dissident, is saying about black women........??

Youre making excuses!!! ???????


I'm not making excuses. I'm telling you honestly about my real world life experience. EVERY time I go near a sista it seems like I should expect the same outcome. NADA. And I've gone out with more than 20 people (black women) in the last few years. I look back at my life and I see that I have a much better track record dating white women. And I have to seriously asking myself what the hell is the matter.

I'm serious. I DON'T KNOW. This shit DRIVES ME CRAZY.

I just met this sista a week ago. And I thought I'd finally hit pay dirt. I mean I was EXCITED. Even she said that I was the only guy she's met in the last 7 years she was really interested in dating. But no. Once again, there's a hitch.

WHAT'S GOING ON???? Frown

Then I have to sit back and listen to "There are no good black men", "Black men don't want us", etc., etc.

Bullshit. Based on my experience, I don't think that black men are the only ones with a problem. Because NONE of the things black women complain about apply in my case. I'm (very) educated, professional, decent looking (some say downright handsome), and serious about finding (preferably) a black woman for a longterm relationship. And I come up empty handed EVERY time. Even if I was doing something majorly wrong, statistically you'd still expect a better outcome. And the fact that I've had much better success with other ethnicities says I can't be doing anything THAT majorly wrong. My conclusion?: Brothas may have some major problems. But the reality - which black women refuse to face up to - is we're not alone.
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Originally posted by qty226:
I went to a club last weekend......and stood around as black men........ran behind the white women. The club was filled with black men/white women. (ohh and believe me.......not to be vain, but i was on point! It didnt matter) I left!!

This is sad. I wish I lived in your town! I can honestly say I would never walk passed you in a club.

But, off, I've found that clubs aren't the best place to find quality women anyway. Not that they are not there, just that the entire environment is loaded with preconceptions that make it difficult to actually get to know someone, even superficially. I sure the same goes for men. Would you really want the attention of one of these men, under these circumstances?
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Originally posted by Black Viking:
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Originally posted by qty226:
I went to a club last weekend......and stood around as black men........ran behind the white women. The club was filled with black men/white women. (ohh and believe me.......not to be vain, but i was on point! It didnt matter) I left!!

This is sad. I wish I lived in your town! I can honestly say I would never walk passed you in a club.

But, off, I've found that clubs aren't the best place to find quality women anyway. Not that they are not there, just that the entire environment is loaded with preconceptions that make it difficult to actually get to know someone, even superficially. I sure the same goes for men. Would you really want the attention of one of these men, under these circumstances?


Excellent point. I never go looking for a quality date in a club.
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Originally posted by qty226:
These pro ball players, entertainers....ALL have white wives, etc.

I'd be very careful with the word "all". As Faheem pointed out on a previous thread on this topic, Michael Jordan is married to a Black woman.

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On this board.....several black men have stated that they date white women.

They've also stated that they date Black women. No one to my knowledge has said that they exclusively date white women.

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For the most part.......MOST black men are OK with dating I/R.......and i cant understand why you feel its OK for them..........but not ok for black women.

I think that the Black men who date I/R are OK with Black women doing it as well. I feel that Faheem and Dissident, and others who share their views are against I/R dating period. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong guys.

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I've always dated black men......because deep in my heart, thats who i love, and im quite sure a lot of black women feel this way.

Pardon if I misunderstood your statement, but I don't think its neccessary for Black men to love you. You only need one good one. Wink
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused
Honest Brother.....

So this is what i gather........

When you make these statements.......these are because of your experiences. But when black women make these statements.............shes COMPLAINING.

Dont you think thats weird?

I dont make excuses, about why im single...........my only problem is that a lot black men are no longer interested in black women......me and other women, are feeling the brunt of this behavior.

But i keep telling you.......if you feel better about dating 'other' races, then do so!!!

I cant understand the problem???? Confused
Black Viking....

This is true.......finding a man in a club, is not the best thing to do. (although my parents met in a club).

So, i cant meet them in the club.......and i damn sure dont see black men on campus at school, so hopefully i'll bump into one, out of the blue. Smile

Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!
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Originally posted by qty226:
Honest Brother.....

So this is what i gather........

When you make these statements.......these are because of your experiences. But when black women make these statements.............shes COMPLAINING.

Dont you think thats weird?

I dont make excuses, about why im single...........my only problem is that a lot black men are no longer interested in black women......me and other women, are feeling the brunt of this behavior.

But i keep telling you.......if you feel better about dating 'other' races, then do so!!!

I cant understand the problem???? Confused


Qty, aren't you supposed to be in law school or something? Listening to what people ACTUALLY say - as opposed to putting YOUR words in their mouth - is a pretty important skill for a lawyer. Wouldn't you say?
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Honest Brother.....

So this is what i gather........

When you make these statements.......these are because of your experiences. But when black women make these statements.............shes COMPLAINING.

Dont you think thats weird?

I dont make excuses, about why im single...........my only problem is that a lot black men are no longer interested in black women......me and other women, are feeling the brunt of this behavior.

But i keep telling you.......if you feel better about dating 'other' races, then do so!!!

I cant understand the problem???? Confused


Qty aren't you supposed to be in law school or something? Listening to what people ACTUALLY say - as opposed to putting YOUR words in their mouth - is a pretty important skill for a lawyer. Wouldn't you say?




Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused
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Originally posted by qty226:

Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


It's true. YOU SEEM TO NEVER ADDRESS WHAT I ACTUALLY SAY.

You just said

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Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


INSPITE of the fact that I have repeatedly said that I've dated EXCLUSIVELY black in the last few years. Inspite of the fact, I've said I would prefer to marry black.

Where I'm concerned, you've repeatedly shown yourself to be an extremely poor listener. You latch on to just enough of what I say to prove your point. And then the rest goes out the other ear.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:

Was that supposed to be a low blow? hhhmmmm think again...and answer the question.

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


It's true. YOU SEEM TO NEVER ADDRESS WHAT I ACTUALLY SAY.

You just said

quote:

Whats your problem? You are dating white women.......but you want the sistas to do what???


INSPITE of the fact that I have repeatedly said that I've dated EXCLUSIVELY black in the last few years. Inspite of the fact, I've said I would prefeer to marry black.

Where I'm concerned you've repeatedly shown yourself to be an extremely poor listener. You latch on to just enough to prove your point. And then the rest goes out the window.




Nope, you have justified your reasons for dating white women.........so continue to do so, and that'll help you to stop, complaining about black women.

Why complain when you have someone else to love?????
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).

So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.

Why should I........am not a man.

Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?

I think white women should know how YOU feel....Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
Why complain when you have someone else to love?????


And oh yeah, thanks for illustrating the mental problems some of you sistas have tfro




Thats the best you got??

More excuses huh?

I feel you!! Smile



Why the hell should I bother wasting my time typing ish to someone who doesn't bother to actually read and comprehend it? You respond the same no matter what I say.

That's not an excuse. it's an objective fact that's clear to anyone who reads this thread.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Why complain when you have someone else to love?????


Take your bitterness somewhere else. If you can't have an adult conversation then maybe you need to go to the kiddy table Roll Eyes

I can't talk to somebody got cotton stuffed up in their ears.



HB....im not bitter. Believe that.....

Im a black woman, that will never allow ANYONE to boldly display affection for white women...........while degrading black women.



What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:

HB....im not bitter. Believe that.....

Im a black woman, that will never allow ANYONE to boldly display affection for white women...........while degrading black women.

Stop with your personal attacks!!


QTY, I haven't done or said a damn thing to "degrade black women"

Likewise I haven't "boldly displayed affection for white women"
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Take your bitterness somewhere else. If you can't have an adult conversation then maybe you need to go to the kiddy table Roll Eyes


You know...after fighting with you, i actually laughed so hard when i read this....!! lol spank

I actually remember being told to do this........!! lol

This is was too funny....
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!


The ONLY statements I've made about black women are about people I've personally experienced.

You calling me a liar?

And I'm 35, educated, with no children.

Oh that's right. I'm a black man. So I'm supposed to have multiple baby mamas. I forgot Roll Eyes

So what? You're 23, educated and no kids? You want an award?

And I've made no "personal attacks" against you. Other than saying you never respond to what I ACTUALLY say.

Which is true.
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).
**Understood, but I thought you had some extra information to post about those you spoke about. I guess not. Maybe you are seeing what you want to see and no what is actually there. Smile***



So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.
**I deal in reality. I need not make any type of statements for anyone. It serves no purpose.**

Why should I........am not a man.
**I dont understand your point?? Are you suppose to 'cheer on' black women no matter what? I dont unerstand the gender divide here. All of the couples are mixed, why not cheer them all??



Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?
**I ONLY belong to this site. Are there white sites you can recommend?? I would gladly celebrate mixed doubles love there too Smile


I think white women should know how YOU feel....
**sounds good to me!!!...but my love is colorless. I can see beauty is all races**

Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
**WHERE / WHEN did I say this?? Are you putting words in my mouth?? Currently, I am dating a black woman [I stated this several times]. I guess you only want to personalize this discussion and add in untruths. Good luck with that. I'm finished!!


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Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?


Black Viking, Qty is a law student. So we should help her out.

There's a difference in meaning (sometimes profound) between the terms "All" and "Some", "Many" and "Most"...
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by qty226:
Yes this was an interesting thread.

What i notice is that, these black women are different in every way, but found love............and seem to be getting married.

Some are light skin, dark skin, over weight, athletic, short hair, long hair, etc...............and these men are not complaining!!

I love it!!! appl


how do you know that 'these men are not complaining!!'...it's just a picture. Confused



Question....

Why are you so concerned with WHAT black women are doing...???


actually I not, I was wonder how you can infer so much from a photograph. that's all. As for IR couples, I'm one of the few proponents of such union. I feel love is colorblind and that why I started this celebration thread topic. fro

question 2:

pictured also are black men with white women, some are married to them, can it also be assumed that they are in love too?? I feel that is a valid question since so many of the black women pictured with other race men are 'just dating'. Explanation please Confused




I made an observation, concerning black women..........(because im a black woman).
**Understood, but I thought you had some extra information to post about those you spoke about. I guess not. Maybe you are seeing what you want to see and no what is actually there. Smile***


@ Radio.......how could you figure that.....i saw dark skin, light skin, over weight, athletic, etc....ALL with smiles on their faces.



So i'll tell you what.........You make the same observation concerning black men.
**I deal in reality. I need not make any type of statements for anyone. It serves no purpose.**

@ Radio, if it serves no purpose.....then you should not comment on such!!



**I dont understand your point?? Are you suppose to 'cheer on' black women no matter what? I dont unerstand the gender divide here. All of the couples are mixed, why not cheer them all??


@ Radio, I commented on black women.......because im a black woman. Thats reason enough....!!


Also Radio.......since you feel to celebrate this on a black site...........do you feel the need to celebrate this info on a white one?
**I ONLY belong to this site. Are there white sites you can recommend?? I would gladly celebrate mixed doubles love there too Smile


@ Radio, youre the king of the internet.......im quite sure if you can find pics of women all day.......you can look for different sites, to show off your art work!!


I think white women should know how YOU feel....

**sounds good to me!!!...but my love is colorless. I can see beauty is all races**

@ Radio.......whatever floats your boat!!


Youre not looking at black women, why should i care what YOU think.....or who you want to celebrate?
**WHERE / WHEN did I say this?? Are you putting words in my mouth?? Currently, I am dating a black woman [I stated this several times]. I guess you only want to personalize this discussion and add in untruths. Good luck with that. I'm finished!!


@ Radio, i dont care who you are dating....

I made a statement, and i will continue to stand by it!!!! Smile


quote:
Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?



Ok, so out of the 40% of black men that are married, a small percentage.....are married to white women? Thats fair to say...!


Honestbrother........its tearing you up, at the fact that i could careless about your reasonings for dating white women.

I keep telling you to be happy with your choice.

Why does this piss you off.......im actually agreeing with you.

Confused
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?



Ok, so out of the 40% of black men that are married, a small percentage.....are married to white women? Thats fair to say...!


Honestbrother........its tearing you up, at the fact that i could careless about your reasonings for dating white women.

I keep telling you to be happy with your choice.

Why does this piss you off.......im actually agreeing with you.

Confused


Whatevah ... let me know when you learn HOW TO READ and/or get an attitude readjustment... Then MAYBE I will have something else to say to you. I'm out of this "discussion"
I wrote this

quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
What issues do i have........im a 23 year old, black woman, no children, educated woman. The problem that you are having with me, is the fact that I have no issues..........thus, calling you out when you make statements concerning black women.

Gimmie a break...!!

Stop with the personal attacks!!


The ONLY statements I've made about black women are about people I've personally experienced.

You calling me a liar?

And I'm 35, educated, with no children.

Oh that's right. I'm a black man. So I'm supposed to have multiple baby mamas. I forgot Roll Eyes

So what? You're 23, educated and no kids? You want an award?

And I've made no "personal attacks" against you. Other than saying you never respond to what I ACTUALLY say.

Which is true.


how was what you a wrote a response????
Then I wrote this

quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Now in answer to your other post........

Instead of saying ALL, i'll say MOST!!


qty, 92% of all married Black men are married to Black women. Smile

Of course, they're not all celebrities, but that's OK. Right?


Black Viking, Qty is a law student. So we should help her out.

There's a difference in meaning (sometimes profound) between the terms "All" and "Some", "Many" and "Most"...
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Originally posted by ricardomath:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:

Listening to what people ACTUALLY say - as opposed to putting YOUR words in their mouth - is a pretty important skill for a lawyer. Wouldn't you say?


So is the ability to put words in somebody's mouth, while at the same time making it appear as if you didn't.

Razz


You have a point there....
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!
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Originally posted by Ouwe:
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Once and for all, WHO PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN ON THIS THREAD??????
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Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
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Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though



Now dumb i can deal with........just as long as hes not poor or a bastard.

See we're agreeing here.....!! Big Grin

Now please notice.....i've never called you a 'anything bad'.....i didnt take this to a personal level, by saying disrespectful things to you.....and you have the nerve to call me DUMB?
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
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Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Qty, I think I see why you can't get a man


Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.

Should i care??? Big Grin


Whatever poor bastard wants you can have you Big Grin




I doubt if they will be poor, or bastards!!

Just do you!!


They may be neither poor nor bastards... They might be plenty dumb though



Now dumb i can deal with........just as long as hes not poor or a bastard.

See we're agreeing here.....!! Big Grin


Whatevah.... he can have your sour azzz.
quote:
Originally posted by HonestBrother:
quote:
Originally posted by Ouwe:
We were talking about this subject today. I don't care if a black man decides to date white, Asian, Spanish, etc. It doesn't make a bit of difference to me. What I find offensive is the reasons some black men date women that are not black. I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions. Wesley Snipes is a prime example of putting black women down. I think the magazine was Ebony some years ago, he said that we are too loud, too many children, on welfare, gold diggers, etc. I lost all respect of him after that. And what he said does not describe me and a lot of black women.. And the most influential black women in his life would have been his mother; soooooooooooooo was he talking about his mother?????????? I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Once and for all, WHO PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN ON THIS THREAD??????


Um nobody, I just stated my thoughts, I am new to the board, and I don't want to get into a debate about how I feel, it's only my opinion. Wink
Take the one-sided gender references (the phenomenon should be offensive whether it's Black men or women using the tactic) out and I agree with:
quote:
I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions... I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Raheem, you might have another riot on your hands!

HB - be careful! Your worldview at 23 was probably different than it is 35. Give qty a chance to live & adjust hers. Clearly, Tampa, has a lot to do with how she views things. I would bet 5lbs. of protein that if she went to school in the AUC, her outlook on Black dating would be a little different.

To all the advocates of IR relationships - how do you manage the culture conflicts along with the normal gender conflicts?
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.


I find this very hard to believe. Are you sure that you actually want a Black man? You've explained the dating scene in Tampa many times, but I have a feeling there's more to it than that.

The chances of me finding a Black woman where I live is almost non-existant. That's because there just aren't any here. But there are Black men in Tampa. Considering the statistics we just explored, it can't be all the white women's doing. Can it?
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Originally posted by ddouble:
To all the advocates of IR relationships - how do you manage the culture conflicts along with the normal gender conflicts?


Very, very carefully. It's complicated and it can go wrong very easily. Both people have to be bigger than the bullshit. That in itself can be difficult to find.

As I've said before, patience and sensitivity are the key words. Patience with communication, because each person probably has vastly different styles. Sensitivity for any subject or situation where either person has no frame of reference. I think these things are mandatory in IR's, but all male/female relationships would benefit from a successful application of these two words.

Then again, one person I shared this with said "If women talked a little less and men listened a little more, both those things would come naturally." lol

My 2 Cents... hat
quote:
Originally posted by ddouble:
Take the one-sided gender references (the phenomenon should be offensive whether it's Black men or women using the tactic) out and I agree with:
quote:
I hate to hear a black man put use down because he prefers something other then us to justify his actions... I just get heated when black men put us down to justify why they date other nationalities.


Raheem, you might have another riot on your hands!

HB - be careful! Your worldview at 23 was probably different than it is 35. Give qty a chance to live & adjust hers. Clearly, Tampa, has a lot to do with how she views things. I would bet 5lbs. of protein that if she went to school in the AUC, her outlook on Black dating would be a little different.

To all the advocates of IR relationships - how do you manage the culture conflicts along with the normal gender conflicts?


I personally view all conflicts in that relationship as normal, not race based. I think that it takes two VERY understanding people to look above race to have a functional relationship. Race topics have come up in those relationships, for me, but since she nor I are racist, they have been discussed without anger/hatred.
DDouble.........Your statement is probably true. But what i've heard, is that black men/women are not seeing eye to eye.....across the nation. I do know this........if i date a white man, im not going to make excuses, that black men are uneducated, low lives, etc, etc. etc. I've never said this about black men.....and im tired of black men saying this about black women.



Black Viking....Youre trying to play with my intelligence. If you want to believe, that black men are dating white women.......because of my attitude, im fat, black, ugly, uneducated.......then say it.

Its truly amazing, how black men are willing to have patience, sensitivity, working hard to communicate......with other races but not black women!!

As far as im concerned........this is a dead issue.



"Typical.

How DARE those Black women have a smile on their faces?! Don't they know they're supposed to be somebody's emotional punching bag?! I guess they didn't get the memo."


Yes frenchy, typical indeed!!!
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Black Viking....Youre trying to play with my intelligence. If you want to believe, that black men are dating white women.......because of my attitude, im fat, black, ugly, uneducated.......then say it.

Its truly amazing, how black men are willing to have patience, sensitivity, working hard to communicate......with other races but not black women!!


"Typical.

How DARE those Black women have a smile on their faces?! Don't they know they're supposed to be somebody's emotional punching bag?! I guess they didn't get the memo."



Yes frenchy, typical indeed!!!



Qty, I was trying hard to communicate with you. And you made a shit's worth of an effort to listen.... I think the same can be said of Black Viking. In fact, he was MORE patient than I was.

YOU females - Both you and Frenchy - haven't heard shit that we said. You just seized up on what you wanted to hear. That part which made you feel justified in your hostility.

quote:

If you want to believe, that black men are dating white women.......because of my attitude, im fat, black, ugly, uneducated.......then say it.


Black Viking has said several times I can remember that you're attractive.

The fact that you don't deem it important to listen to folks says VOLUMES about your attitude though ....

For the record, I think you're attractive. But I can't deal with that tude.
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Originally posted by Black Viking:
I've found that conversations white folk don't need to be involved in simply don't interest them. If they're interested, for whatever reason, then they need to be involved.


That is one of the most asinine comments I've ever heard! White folk love an ignorant ass negro like you... and you go right along with it. ***shaking my head****

Do you allow your neighbors to get involved in your family business? If so then you're one weak ass excuse for a man. I wonder how do you live with yourself.

White folk don't need to do a goddamn thing except stay out of the internal affairs of Black people unless invited. Period!

I'm done with this thread.

OUT!
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Originally posted by Dissident:
quote:
Originally posted by Black Viking:
I've found that conversations white folk don't need to be involved in simply don't interest them. If they're interested, for whatever reason, then they need to be involved.


That is one of the most asinine comments I've ever heard! White folk love an ignorant ass negro like you... and you go right along with it. ***shaking my head****


My, my, my. Haven't we gotten a little testy all of a sudden? Did someone get up on the wrong side of his coffin?

Next time you want to get a wild hair up your ass you might want to consider the context of the conversation. Like I said, ricardomath apparently has some experience related to the topic which would explain his interest. Like it or not, this is an inter-racial subject. Therefore, anything white people want to contribute is fine by me. But, if you don't like it, plug your ears and go sit in the corner.

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Do you allow your neighbors to get involved in your family business? If so then you're one weak ass excuse for a man. I wonder how do you live with yourself.

Neighbors and family business have nothing, I repreat, NOTHING to do with the topic of this thread. There is no correlation.

I live with myself just fine, thank you. Even though occasionally I have to put up with shitheads like you.

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White folk don't need to do a goddamn thing except stay out of the internal affairs of Black people unless invited. Period!

I'm not sure if you were paying attention the last time I reminded you of this, but the topic of this thread is Inter-Racial Couples. It doesn't have dick to do with the "internal affairs of Black people".


quote:
I'm done with this thread.

OUT!


Damn... and you've been so inspirational up to this point. sleep sleepsleep
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Originally posted by qty226
Black Viking....Youre trying to play with my intelligence. If you want to believe, that black men are dating white women.......because of my attitude, im fat, black, ugly, uneducated.......then say it.

If that's what I believed, then that's what I would have said. But, that's not what I said. Your projecting. Why?

quote:
Its truly amazing, how black men are willing to have patience, sensitivity, working hard to communicate......with other races but not black women!!

What have we been doing all this time?
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Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.


I find this very hard to believe. Are you sure that you actually want a Black man? You've explained the dating scene in Tampa many times, but i have a feeling there's more to it than that.

The chances of me finding a Black woman where I live is almost non-existant. That's because there just aren't any here. But there are Black men in Tampa. Considering the statistics we just explored, it can't be all the white women's doing. Can it?



Ok, to be fair.......im going to retract, and ask....what were you implying?
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
quote:
Originally posted by Black Viking:
quote:
Originally posted by qty226:
Well lets just say this...........i cant get a black man.


I find this very hard to believe. Are you sure that you actually want a Black man? You've explained the dating scene in Tampa many times, but i have a feeling there's more to it than that.

The chances of me finding a Black woman where I live is almost non-existant. That's because there just aren't any here. But there are Black men in Tampa. Considering the statistics we just explored, it can't be all the white women's doing. Can it?



Ok, to be fair.......im going to retract, and ask....what were you implying?


I'm trying to understand why you think you can't get a Black man. All the things that you listed, "I'm too fat, black, ugly, uneducated, ect." doesn't describe you. So what's the deal?

I'm wondering if the Black men that are around you just aren't up to your standards, whatever your standards are. That's why I brought the statistics back up. According to the statistics, Black men want you. My question is, do you want them?
See, it's like this: You guys are applying analytical thinking in an obvious attempt to gain understanding. While this is great, you'll come up against a wall of truth that most Sistas would rather not climb over.

Now, if you can get the Sistas to admit those points they never want to.

You gotta be careful though, there are times when the truth can be a little ugly.
Black Viking...

Black men have options........and they are exercising those options. (Im just one of many women they can chose from)

As i've mentioned before (some people want to ignore this fact)........this is a problem in the black community. If a woman is too dark.....she goes unnoticed, i dont care how beautiful she is. Her light skinned friends, are the ones that get picked first!! They only want me, after these women turn them down....!!

This has always been a problem for me. Its happened since high school, and im therefore cautious of black men.

(Yeah, as Thayfen mentioned, the truth can be ugly)

I dont complain about the situation, i just move on in life.

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