Zakar has sparked my interest in this topic
Have you been disappointed by women? How so?
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quote:Originally posted by MBM:Oh boy, this is going to a doosy!
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quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Zakar has sparked my interest in this topic
Have you been disappointed by women? How so?
quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Zakar has sparked my interest in this topic
Have you been disappointed by women? How so?
quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Zakar has sparked my interest in this topic
Have you been disappointed by women? How so?
quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
Yes.
The list of why and how so is to long to put down here.
quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
Yes.
The list of why and how so is to long to put down here.
Just a brief summary would suffice..
*Also please mention what you did to her*![]()
quote:Originally posted by qty226:
Gambit........i see youre trying to 'slide', out of this one...![]()
quote:Have you been disappointed by women?
quote:How so?
quote:Originally posted by Shango67:quote:Have you been disappointed by women?
Of course!quote:How so?
The list is too long.
The entire nation is filled with scandalous broads, born again virgins, reinvented hoes, and disloyal sistas.
quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Zakar has sparked my interest in this topic
Have you been disappointed by women? How so?
Yes.
The list of why and how so is to long to put down here.
quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Forgive me, but I am beginning to see a pattern here.
Could this be the communication issue that women speak of? You expect us to uphold a certain standard-tell you what we want, need, give you our life history but you can't even be bothered with us when we are trying to find out what "WE" as women can do to improve ourselves in the eyes of the black man..........? (That is the ultimate goal of this topic, FOR ME)
quote:Could this be the communication issue that women speak of? You expect us to uphold a certain standard-tell you what we want, need, give you our life history but you can't even be bothered with us when we are trying to find out what "WE" as women can do to improve ourselves in the eyes of the black man..........? (That is the ultimate goal of this topic, FOR ME)
quote:Her fling was with a hustlin' Bad Boy. He was my polar opposite. I discovered the affair after a week when he stole some money and beat her a$$.
quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
one and only -
You're new here; let me school you on how things usually go down around here.
Example 1: Woman launches into rant thread about how terrible men are.
95% of the ladies co-sign
Men defend themselves or proclaim that they and their friends do not engage in subject of rant.
Ladies say we are being dishonest and continue to rant, often with little regard for the language used or civility.
Example 2: Man launches into rant thread about how terrible women are.
80-85% of men co-sign
Ladies deny that the behavior occurs, then suggest that ultimately men are the reason the women being ranted about behaved the way they did.
If a lady happens to agree with the male rant, she is quickly shouted down or accused of having some issue (suck-up, brainwashed, naive, unenlightened).
Ladies then relaunch the rants from their threads, overrunning the male poster's thread.
Read through some old threads in the Den, Sista's Spot, and Dating/Relationships. We know how it happens around here; we open up, only to be told our perceptions aren't valid - it's tiring & annoying; so when someone new, possibly with good intentions, posts this type of question, many of us are skeptical.
Lucy's pulled the football away too many times...![]()
quote:Originally posted by The one and only ME:
Forgive me, but I am beginning to see a pattern here.
Could this be the communication issue that women speak of? You expect us to uphold a certain standard-tell you what we want, need, give you our life history but you can't even be bothered with us when we are trying to find out what "WE" as women can do to improve ourselves in the eyes of the black man..........? (That is the ultimate goal of this topic, FOR ME)
quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
one and only -
You're new here; let me school you on how things usually go down around here.
Example 1: Woman launches into rant thread about how terrible men are.
95% of the ladies co-sign
Men defend themselves or proclaim that they and their friends do not engage in subject of rant.
Ladies say we are being dishonest and continue to rant, often with little regard for the language used or civility.
Example 2: Man launches into rant thread about how terrible women are.
80-85% of men co-sign
Ladies deny that the behavior occurs, then suggest that ultimately men are the reason the women being ranted about behaved the way they did.
If a lady happens to agree with the male rant, she is quickly shouted down or accused of having some issue (suck-up, brainwashed, naive, unenlightened).
Ladies then relaunch the rants from their threads, overrunning the male poster's thread.
quote:Originally posted by Frenchy:
Try 99.9999% cosign and one brotha in the back silently watches it all go down. Hmph!![]()
quote:Originally posted by Shango67:quote:Her fling was with a hustlin' Bad Boy. He was my polar opposite. I discovered the affair after a week when he stole some money and beat her a$$.
And you know what's so funny... when you catch these broads on the foul, they have the NERVE to break up with you as if your SNOOPING was the straw that broke the back.
Fuck the Jedi Mind Trick...
I ALWAYS check into my girl's life; especially when I see some funny shit going on.
Doesn't matter who the woman is... they ALL CHEAT. Can't help themselves.
You know what... I need to leave this discussion. I am about to bust a pipe thinking about the skullduggery of these sistas.
quote:Originally posted by folobatuyi:
Shango,
Between you and Zane, I finally have all the confirmation of the fact that ladies cheat as much as men and that the so-called air or allusion of wholesomeness is just that..an overblown and overstated allusion to persisently shift and devert self-responsibility around.
quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
Brother Felix-
When I actively hung out with a crew of single women, I saw & heard things that violate "the code" - stuff that ladies do & think, but keep on the hush amongst themselves. Trust me, the potential to do vile things to one's partner in a relationship is not just a male practice. IMO, women simply cover their tracks better, that's all. But in the end K is right, there are plenty of honorable ladies out there. But until you find one, work on your stiff arm technique.![]()
quote:Originally posted by Huey:quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
Brother Felix-
When I actively hung out with a crew of single women, I saw & heard things that violate "the code" - stuff that ladies do & think, but keep on the hush amongst themselves. Trust me, the potential to do vile things to one's partner in a relationship is not just a male practice. IMO, women simply cover their tracks better, that's all. But in the end K is right, there are plenty of honorable ladies out there. But until you find one, work on your stiff arm technique.![]()
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quote:Shango,
Between you and Zane, I finally have all the confirmation of the fact that ladies cheat as much as men and that the so-called air or allusion of wholesomeness is just that..an overblown and overstated allusion to persisently shift and devert self-responsibility around.
quote:Felix...
I really hope you don't believe that EVERY woman will cheat on you....
Peace,
Khalliqa
quote:Originally posted by Shango67:
DON'T LISTEN TO HER!
They ALL cheat!
In some form or another...
quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by Shango67:
DON'T LISTEN TO HER!
They ALL cheat!
In some form or another...
I really wanted to stay out of this, because i got the hint that women never listen.
But....i have to tell you, that i have NEVER cheated.
To me, it takes up too much time and energy. After my feelings have changed.....for whatever reason, i bounce. (and trust, i have no problems doing that)
Theres no need for me to chill with a person that im not interested in, etc.
Not all women cheat.![]()
quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
But women like you seem to be to few and to far between. Like ddouble stated: we need to use the stiff arm nowadays. No more taking chances....
quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by Shango67:
DON'T LISTEN TO HER!
They ALL cheat!
In some form or another...
I really wanted to stay out of this, because i got the hint that women never listen.
But....i have to tell you, that i have NEVER cheated.
To me, it takes up too much time and energy. After my feelings have changed.....for whatever reason, i bounce. (and trust, i have no problems doing that)
Theres no need for me to chill with a person that im not interested in, etc.
Not all women cheat.![]()
quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
But women like you seem to be to few and to far between. Like ddouble stated: we need to use the stiff arm nowadays. No more taking chances....
Question...
Have all of the women, in your life........cheated on you?
Tell the truth....
quote:Originally posted by Shango67:
DDOUBLE...
I have shared the STIFF ARM discussion with some of my boys via email, and we have been rolling all morning.
You are a god here in NY!
STIFF ARM!
I love it!