quote:one cannot boast about having lured the company of beautiful female friends, then with the same breathe accuse women of being "superficial" because they also want to be in the company of handsome men. That's not how it works. REAL women are not going to go through the trouble of making themselves beautiful, attractive, and financially secure while you shiftlessly walk around looking like a piece of shit having nothing to contribute towards building a family.
I just tell it like it is--I get sick and damn tired of some sisters condoning, putting up with, settling for, and, in many cases, being more interested in a sloppy, unkept, unhealthy, unrespectable, disrespectful negro than a brother that's been raised to dress and act accordingly.
back in the day, if you didn't come correct to a sister, you got your ego handed to you in a crumpled brown paper bag, by the sister you were pursuing, and sent on your marry little way--this wasn't too long ago either. Even if the girl was gullible enough to accept a sloppy boy, he most certainly didn't make it past the parents.
Now, these young sisters let these young black boys run through em' like flesh-eating fish at a wounded Gazzelle. They get passed around, talked about, abused, misused, and neglected then they're the first to complain when their world comes crumbling down.
For too long, many sisters, young and old, don't realize the power they possess to control their men. When Michael Jordan first came out with his clean-shaven head, the sisters went crazy--the next thing you know, every boy and man in the United States shaved their head clean--why? Because it's what women want. A brother would wear a snow cone on his head and a red and white checker suit if the sisters said it was sexy.
Damn, all I'm saying is, ladies, especially those of you that are having a hard time with these knuckle heads--make these brothers WORK for it--make em' clean themselves up--boycott them suckers until they clean their act up. After all, no matter what you do, as a decent, respectable sister, a brother that ain't worth shit is going to seek out other sources for bootycalls anyway, so, leave it up to the ho's to service them and keep yourselves intact.
A real man will do the right thing--a fool will value what he can get now over what's important--the future.