I have a beautiful daughter who just turned one in July. (Her father is the man that I talked about in my topic "my Story" in the Den.) Since I have decided that I don't want to be with him anymore (for obvious reasons) and stopped having sex with him, he no longer feels the need to honor his commitments to our daughter. His child support is ALWAYS late if he even pays and he doesn't see her as much as he did when we were still kicking it. He sees his other kids EVERY week and helps out financially as well. He is still sleeping with both of these women.
Just a sample of what I am dealing with: Yesterday, he called me to argue with me about something. I picked up the phone and said "Oh, you can call when you think I'm mad but you can't call to check on your daughter?" He says "I don't need to call you period. I can text you for that." He may as well have shot me in the chest. So, he can text me and find out how our beautiful, developing one year old daughter is? He doesn't need to see her???
Please help me understand this.
Fellas: Have you ever done this type of thing and why???? Ladies: Have you experienced this type of thing? How did you handle it? How do I keep him from blowing holes in my heart with his mean words? Why does it hurt me so much that he chooses not to be in our daughter's life? Please help me understand......