SMH
1. I provided excerpts (including figures) from a near 200 page comprehensive and well-researched document on FGM/C that was put together by UNICEF (a credible source), which does not condone FGM/C in any way, but they were completely ignored. This document managed to state that FGM/C is a human rights violation (which I wholly agree with) without pronouncing judgement and condemnation on anyone except the practice itself but this was completely ignored.
In fact, all of the facts that were presented in the UNICEF document (credible source) were completely ignored such as...
- Religion having nothing to do with FGM/C (Togo's main religion is traditional or indigenous, not Muslim or Christian, but FGM/C is practiced in this country);
- Some Islamic countries making it very clear that FGM/C is not an Islamic belief or practice;
- Laws have been enacted to end FGM/C in countries where it is being practiced;
- Trends showing that, since the 1980s, the practice of FGM/C has been declining in most countries where it is being done, and, among some tribes, completely eliminated (Isn't this progress?);
- The reasons the practice continues; and
- Facts that show that men, in some of those countries where FGM/C is practiced, would like for the practice to end...but
Completely ignored.
2. In one of the excerpts from the UNICEF document, it stated that in some countries (like Kenya), FGM/C is being performed on younger girls than before despite efforts to end the practice. In other words, trends showed that, over time, FGM/C is being done on younger and younger girls. I find this trend very alarming and horrifying.
The point I was trying to make (but was completely missed) was that if some tribes or ethnic groups insist on performing FGM/C then they should STOP PERFORMING IT ON YOUNG GIRLS AND BABIES and perform it only on ADULT WOMEN, who CHOOSE to do it for THEMSELVES, in a SANITIZED MEDICAL FACILITY, after being FULLY INFORMED (of the risks, complications, etc.).
The UNICEF report (obviously ignored) stated that when they spoke to adult women who had the procedure performed on them, many did not recall the age in which was performed and had no recollection of the experience itself. Furthermore, the report (ignored) stated that some women actually believe that it is normal for it to take 15 minutes to empty their bladders. They have not connected the dots: FGM/C directly related to the difficulty in emptying their bladders (complication).
If those ADULT WOMEN, who have forgotten the actual experience, had to experience it all over again as ADULTS, they would be less inclined to have FGM/C performed on their young daughters or babies. That was the point I was trying to make.
Of course, this does not take into account Type 3 FGM/C (sewing up). In this case, the adult women who allow this procedure to be performed on their young daughters are viewing it in terms of the benefits (marriageability and social acceptance) outweighing the cost (risks, including death, and long term adverse complications). This dynamic needs to change. In other words, policies need to be put in place so that the cost (permanent removal of children from parents, for example) outweighs the benefits (marriageability and social acceptance).
The highest incidence (63%) of Type 3 FGM/C is found in Somalia (a Muslim country). Interestingly, Mali and Nigeria (both Islamic), for example, have a low incidence of Type 3 FGM/C (3 percent and 6 percent, respectively). This information was in the UNICEF report that was ignored, and it will probably be ignored again.
3. I have asked a couple of times already for someone, anyone, to provide credible proof that the practice of FGM/C began with either or both the Arab Slave Trade or Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade. So far, no one has provided any proof. I've been trying to find this myself and, so far, I have not found anything. If you have credible information that I am not privy to, please share it. This is a reasonable request.
Stating the same thing over and over again, in the absence of any proof, does not make it either valid or true.
By the way, if the captured and enslaved woman did not have Type 3 FGM/C performed on her, she would still have likely been put on the ship. As we all know, not all types of FGM/C involve removal of the flesh. In this case (non-Type 3), the white male slaver (not a gynecologist) who performed the 'inspection' would have no idea whether the woman could become pregnant or be able to carry a baby to full term by just looking at her external parts.
4.I did not just learn about FGM/C recently. It's been years since I've first learned of this practice. It has only been recently that I have been trying to learn more about the practice from the perspectives of those who had it performed on them and would like to see it continue.
How in the world can anyone become fully informed about FGM/C if she or he refuses to look all angles or aspects of it?
So far, the report from UNICEF and Fuambai Ahmadu's personal account have been the most insightful and informative, for me, in this regard. Much of the stuff out there on the subject, IMO, looks like it was put together by Fox News.
I am not interested in sensational or shock-value reporting on FGM/C, which often comes across as exploitative of and disrespectful to the very people it claims to be trying to help.
5. Fuambai Ahmadu is a Sierra Leone-American woman (a true African American). She was born in Sierra Leone but was raised in the USA. Fuambai Ahmadu, as a well-informed ADULT, chose to have the procedure performed on her. She stated the reason why she did it. No one forced her do it. It was her choice. Why is this being ignored?
Presenting Fuambai Ahmadu's case should in no way be construed as acceptance of the practice of FGM/C. Anyone who draws that conclusion is seriously reaching. UNICEF mentioned her in its report. I mentioned her, too, on this thread. UNICEF is against the practice of FGM/C. So am I.
Fuambai Ahmadu is an adult woman. I personally cannot and will not tell an adult woman what she can or cannot do with her own body, whether I agree with what she does with it or not. Isn't this what the abortion issue is all about in this country: Women's rights to their own bodies? I personally don't agree with abortion (except in extenuating circumstances) but who am I to tell a woman what she can or cannot do with her own body?
Fuambai Ahmadu stated that she would NOT FORCE her daughter (if she had one) to undergo FGM/C. Of course, this was completely ignored.
6. In the UNICEF report, completely ignored, it stated that it is considered disrespectful (especially in Muslim countries) to put a woman's or girl's genitals on display. The report stated that they could not even show them a drawing of a female's genitals. Out of respect for the women and girls in those countries, UNICEF chose not to show or include any photos of their genitals.
Many websites clearly lack scruples, decorum, and respect for black African females because they have posted photos of the genitals of actual women and girls on their websites. In the USA, posting an image of an underage girl's genitals on a website is illegal. Those who post the genitals of black African women and girls (without their knowledge or consent) on their websites are, in effect, saying that black African women and girls are not deserving of respect...but that's not surprising.
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I must conclude, based on the replies, that the report by UNICEF was completely dismissed (not read). Also, I must conclude that Fuambai Ahmadu's blog on the practice of FGM/C in Sierra Leone (particularly with the Kono people) and her own personal experience with it was completely dismissed (unread).
Finally, as I've stated several times before (on this topic and a similar one posted on this web site),
I COMPLETELY DISAGREE WITH THE PRACTICE OF FGM/C. I BELIEVE IT IS A HUMAN RIGHT'S VIOLATION AND THAT IT SHOULD END.