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all of the 'lip talk' over in the spot (scrumptous women) had me wondering about kissing...

how important is it to you?

what do you like about kissing? what do you dislike about it?

what have been your worst kissing experiences? what have been your best?

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kissing is important to me, but it is not the end all be all. I hear alot of women say, "If a man can't kiss, then you know he can't (you know what)!"-but I don't think that is true. Some people are just plain bad kissers and they can't help it.

I don't like it when a man rams his tongue down my throat and gets slobber all over my mouth. I like to start off slow, with sweet little kisses and then go into deep long kisses, but I don't like to kiss for hours and hours at a time.tongue is good, but not always necessary for a good kiss.

my worst experiene:a old boyfriend insisted on ramming his tongue down my throat, while he pushed the back of my head closer to him to get even deeper in my throat!gross!
best:when I kissed my current boyfriend for the first time, it was magic, I never had a man kiss me where my knees buckled and my stomach got quesy(I thought that was only in the movies) until him.

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The Lord is on my side;I will not fear:what can man do unto me?
(Psalms 118:6)


If God brings you to it - He will bring you through it.
kissers...

i have met:

*the darters
*the slobberers
*those who try to touch your tonsils
*the lazy tongues
*the gymnastic tongues
*the flickers

and then thank goodness those who danced with you instead of all over you. those who followed your lead or allowed there to be something created between your two styles.

kissing is extremely important to me. having been blessed with what my brotha Immortal Logic calls "mighty clouds of joy" i take kissing very seriously.

for me its an art form...one where initial connection can be shown or not shown.

mspg--i am one of those women who says if a man can't kiss then he can't do (you know what). i believe this...because if he can kiss me or allow me to kiss him in a way that clears my mind--then he can do (you know what) in the same manner. its a mental thing and kissing for me gets me there mentally, among other things.

i've stopped seeing men who couldnt kiss (of course there were other things that were putting him on the fence) but a bad kiss can be the 'kiss of death' pardon the pun. Smile

this is something i wrote that is a part of my page on bp:
it is perhaps the most basic expression of desire to please, and be pleased all at once. our lips are so sensitive - so many nerves sensing heat, pressure, and moisture. there are so many things that can be communicated with a kiss. it can be reassuring or assertive, show tenderness and affection, be a simple greeting, or a promise of things to come. or, it can be a segue into sensual exploration and abandonment. most men have not yet discovered how to let themselves go, how to give in to the full range of sensations a simple kiss can render. rarely have i heard of a man trembling all over from the erotic force of a kiss...

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I'm with you, Nykkii ...

Kissing is more than important ... it's pretty much on the necessity list! Big Grin

A good kisser kisses with intent ... whether it be to get the old juices flowing or to just say hi. And a good kisser will land that intent home... to the point where the one being kissed 'gets it' in more way than one!

And I do believe that a good kisser will be good at (you know what) because if he can take the time and acquire the knowledge of what to do to please with just his lips, imagine how the attention he's paid to pleasing in other ways! Wink

I think the darters are the worst!! It's like kissing a lizard! Eek Yuck! So my worst experience would be anyone who's done that to me! Smile

My best, was with an old boyfriend who once kissed me so deeply and passionately, that after he finished, I literally didn't know where I was! It was a true work of art!

Dang ... I kinda miss him now!! lol Big Grin


Black by Nature, Proud by Choice.
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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
...kissed me so deeply and passionately, that after he finished, I literally didn't know where I was!


those are the best!!

ive experienced that, and hold on to the memories of those kisses dearly.

i've been told after kissing a man that my kisses should come with a warning..."not for men with weak hearts..." must be something about the joy in those clouds... MUAH! Wink

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I need to be kissed, and kissed well..then I will give you the world...something like that.

I am not sure about the connection of kissing and sexual ability though. Because I don't like the way a guy kisses does not mean that he is a bad kisser. To me, it just means that he kisses differently and I prefer my style best.

I remember a few years ago, a first kiss with this one guy. I laughed or something like that after he kissed me and explained that he kissed differently. So he asked me to tell him what to do. I looked deeply into his eyes and said, Like this.. and showed him. He too prefered my way. It was more sensual and he was hooked on me. We saw each other off and on for a bit - just making out. Last April or May we finally went all the way. Ummm... Possiblly the best sex I ever had. And this from a guy whose first kiss was bad... or at least it was to me.

La Femme Nkechi
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Be the change in the world you want to see...it starts with you
Dayyuuummm, I'm surprised I missed this one.

Rubbing noses, eyelashes, etc. kissing is very, very important to me. A daily hug and a kiss does wonders for a relationship.

You know you have her number when you can make her have an orgasm JUST FROM KISSING. Get her all lightheaded and dizzy, have the room spinning in her head.

Whether you kiss her from the front or back, doesn't matter. Actually, from the back, you can really get her going. And don't let her have one of those big round booties, she is in some serious trouble. Big Grin

Grab her from around the waist and lean her back into you. Start kissing her on the shoulder blade and work your way towards the back of the neck. Then towards the other side of her neck. Have her lean her head on your shoulder and turn it sideways towards you so you can kiss her lips. Take your hands and start caressing other areas of her body. NASTY KISSING Razz

Yep, she better have at least one set of dry panties with her at all times if she is with me. Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin She will be changing them every now and then from my kisses Big Grin Big Grin

Now you see why I love your lips Nykkii Wink
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Originally posted by darkbuck:
Grab her from around the waist and lean her back into you. Start kissing her on the shoulder blade and work your way towards the back of the neck. Then towards the other side of her neck. Have her lean her head on your shoulder and turn it sideways towards you so you can kiss her lips. Take your hands and start caressing other areas of her body. NASTY KISSING Razz

Yep, she better have at least one set of dry panties with her at all times if she is with me. Big Grin Big Grin Big Grin She will be changing them every now and then from my kisses Big Grin Big Grin



You have me totally convinced Big Grin

La Femme Nkechi
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Be the change in the world you want to see...it starts with you
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Originally posted by Nykkii:
all of the 'lip talk' over in the spot (scrumptous women) had me wondering about kissing...

how important is it to you?


It's pretty important.

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Originally posted by Nykkii:
what do you like about kissing? what do you dislike about it?


I like that it is something that can really make me all melty, knock-kneed, speechless, and all that that I'm typically not. I love the caresses of a man with impeccable timing. Bites. Moans. Basically the whole damn thing, lol.

I dislike when it gets all saliva-y. When his kiss is too aggressive for the moment. And when people are around because I'm not big on PDA.

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Originally posted by Nykkii:
what have been your worst kissing experiences? what have been your best?


Can't say. I mean, I hated my first. I wanted to take it back, lol. But it wasn't a bad kiss, per se.

There was no frog or limp noodle tongue. We didn't stand there arms at our sides like stiff boards or anything. Actually, there was absolutely nothing wrong with it methodically.

But I consider it my worst because of the timing.

I was really young. It was almost an ambushed. When I did loosen up and try to make the best of it, I was disappointed to not to hear the harps and violins. It really felt like nothing special just happened. We might as well had just waved goodnight. It felt the same.

Ever since, I've regretted not waiting a few years. I think that if I did, I would have been anticipating a first kiss for so long that, even if the technique sucked, it would have felt like something more. Heard my violins.

I'm not sure what my best was. I probably wouldn't have told that story, anyway. Razz
~My worst and best were with the SAME person! It was my very first kiss, and I was like, "Tongue? Eeeew! No way!" So, he basically taught me how, and MAN-o-MAN did he know what he was doing!...just slow, and hungry-like. WHEW! Had me completely feverish without doing a thing else! I've never met a kisser like him SINCE. This was in my teen years. One of my cousins told me a few years back that she ran into him and she told me that he is married with FIVE children! I didn't even blink. It surprised me not one bit! LOL! What a lucky woman that wife of his! cabbage~
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Originally posted by Khalliqa:
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Originally posted by Nykkii:
what do you dislike about it?




disgusting....

whose brilliant idea was it to put their tongue in somebody's mouth? Confused Who in the world would accept it? sck


I don't know who came up with it first, but I can't hate.

Kissing without tongue is fine, but added tongue is fantastic. More nerve endings are stimilated.

And if you are one into frenching, it can be an indicator a deeper level of intimacy. You're kissing this person in a way that you do not kiss others.

And it's so sensual. You're exploring each other externally and internally and feeling things that are often missed with other kisses. Like how sexy the warmth of another's mouth feels within your own.

The wordless communication. The feeding off each other. Reading. It's all amplified.

And unlike other kissing, I think frenching would be difficult to do when the emotional connection is not there. So, it's almost a demonstration of a deep bond.

The sensuality of it is just different. The passion involved.

Other kisses are a mixture of rings around the rosies, jitterbugs, and waltzes.

Frenching is almost always a tango.
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Originally posted by Nykkii:
all of the 'lip talk' over in the spot (scrumptous women) had me wondering about kissing...

how important is it to you?

what do you like about kissing? what do you dislike about it?

what have been your worst kissing experiences? what have been your best?

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uummm kissing is one of the best parts of physically being with a man. It is important to me that a man knows how to use his mouth. What I like about kissing is the level of intimacy it can bring to a relationship. I like the softness of the man's lips and the tingly feeling I get when I kiss. I like the sucking. There's nothing that I don't like about it.
Kissing a smoker was my worst experience with kissing...Frown Eww yuck!
My best experience with kissing was with an ex named James...and kissing wasn't the only thing he was good at! 4
Kissing is tremendously important to me... the main keys are timing (it's kind of like a dance, in a sense), and keeping it reasonably dry (too wet and slathery is pretty yucky). There's no one winning formula, but often I like to start off with gentle, short, quick ones that aren't so invasive, and allow it to get more intense as it goes. Tongue-across-top-lip always seems to be a bit hit, but in general it really is like a dance, and you follow the timing and the mood as it develops. In any event, it's importance in the overall romance/sensuality/sexuality scheme cannot be overstated...

The worst is when the woman, for some unknown reason, holds her mouth wide open, but doesn't move anything or do anything. Does she want my tongue in there or my whole jaw? Confused
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Originally posted by Khalliqa:
disgusting....

whose brilliant idea was it to put their tongue in somebody's mouth? Confused Who in the world would accept it? sck
I find it interesting that a person with 3 kids doesn't like kissing...

Were the conceptions immaculate??



bringing forth children does not require licking the inside of someone else's mouth..... td6
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Originally posted by Khalliqa:
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Originally posted by AudioGuy:
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Originally posted by Khalliqa:
disgusting....

whose brilliant idea was it to put their tongue in somebody's mouth? Confused Who in the world would accept it? sck
I find it interesting that a person with 3 kids doesn't like kissing...

Were the conceptions immaculate??



bringing forth children does not require licking the inside of someone else's mouth..... td6

But doesn't it require something even more "intrusive" and "invasive"?
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Originally posted by Nykkii:
how important is it to you?

what do you like about kissing? what do you dislike about it?

what have been your worst kissing experiences? what have been your best?


Kissing is VERY important, it's the jump off point. A kiss that's just right can change your whole day.
I love the romance in it. The way our lips touch and seem to seal together...
I hate forceful kissing, eww! Don't damn near rip my lips off with your teeth, that's nasty! Oh and a lot of tounge, yuck! I can't stand it when a guy tries to stick his whole tougne in your mouth like you don't have one of your own. That mess is just sick!
My worst kissing experience was with this guy in high school, nasty eww! He bit my lip! Not nibbled or grazed, no his tail bit my lower lip like it was a steak or something! Nasty and painful, he got hit for that one. Made me mad just thinking about it. Mad
My best kiss came from...I've got to give it my husband. On our first real date back when I was seventeen, it was my birthday and everything was just right. It was just right, the way his lps touched mine, the way he waited for me to come to him, it was a kiss that said a lot but left me wonderingSmile.

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