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"That I-can-do-it-by-myself mentality is a lie. I’m sorry if I hurt anybody’s feelings, but you cannot do it all by yourself. You need a village: some aunties, grandmas, and friends. I couldn’t do this by myself and would be a fool to think I could.”



where's dad??  

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Okay, clearly she said she couldn't do it all by herself. Since she was engaged to her son's father and when he was born he was there so what makes people assume that he's not? And if he isn't, he's the adult and the court system would GLADLY grant him visitation and other parental rights. Damn folks just need to grow up and take care of their business.

Originally Posted by Yemaya:

Okay, clearly she said she couldn't do it all by herself. Since she was engaged to her son's father and when he was born he was there so what makes people assume that he's not? And if he isn't, he's the adult and the court system would GLADLY grant him visitation and other parental rights. Damn folks just need to grow up and take care of their business.

but the mindset is messed up...you need a village, but not one man was mentioned.

  That attitude of NOT needing a man to raise her son....will NOT last long.  Folks seem to forget about the children and how they FEEL about this "not needing a father" arrangement.  Trust me she is gonna CHANGE her tone once he hits puberty.  Guarantee it.    That is if the father is not in his son's life already.  Somethin' tells me he is in his son's life and Jill is still mad that their relationship didn't work out.  But!  Time will reveal all.  It always does.  But!

Ok so let me get this correct, black women make black males become gay? Not them being molested by men OR being molested period, medications that inhibit hormones, etc. etc. This is just another slick way of blaming black women for some other ill in the black population. Adults regardless of their gender need to take care of their children. If black men don't like what's going on GROW UP and BE RESPONSIBLE.  Quit making excuses as to why you can't be an active participant in your child's life. Stop being a chump.

Yet, another Black man that hates Black women and blames Black women for everything damn thing that is wrong in his life.  

 

I think he is extrapolating his own life and life experience onto the entire Black race and stereotyping ALL Black women to be clones of his ex-wife/girlfriend/mother/etc.

 

A parent can't make a child gay.  If a person is gay, it has nothing to do with their upbringing, provided that there has been no sexual abuse going on.  

 

I think that this is just more evidence of how powerful the American/Western propaganda machine is, where it conditions people to have any and every conceivable negative impression of, and to always find blame in Black people/Black men/Black women.  It is working so well, that it makes Black people hate other Black people, and such as in this case,  works extremely well in making [weak-minded, and/or ignorant] Black men hate, despise and look down on Black women.  Now, that's almost better than Planned Parenthood's initial Program to decrease the Black population in America.

 

I will say that I do believe that there so many young males growing up in single mother households and without much male [real man males] influence that too many of them think like females when it comes to the relationships with opposite sex, but, I know that they are not gay/homosexual.   I also know young males who were raised in two parent homes and had all the influence of both parents, which includes a strong male figure, yet they are gay/homosexual.  

 

Human sexuality is separate from personality, character, knowledge and habits which a child can and will pick up or model after a parent, thus, the feminine mentality, without feminine sexuality.  Apple and Oranges.  


But, anyway, who the hell is he to make such anindictment against Black Females?  And to actually make this indictment against Black females as if Black women are the only women in America with a homosexual son, or are the only ones with female headed families, and even actually brings through his stupid teeth, that Black women are making their sons gay to spite the child's father; damn.  


If you ask me, he was sucking on that big giant cigar as if he was homosexual or something.  Who the hell cares what this man thinks that has to espouse all this 'hate-on-Black women' mantra under the guise of fake, exaggerated rhetoric, and a homophobic viewpoint, while wearing big ass shades and sucking on a big ass cigar like it was big brown penis.


Originally Posted by Kocolicious:

  Ha!  Both bashings!  Now that's funny.  See?  Brotha RR I can't open your links.  I wanna see....too so I can respond effectively.  But  I can't. 

 

 

i'll try to find the link again...it was loaded from my Ipad (I'm an owner of the IPAD, but not a fan!!!)....all bashing is wrong and I'm a fan of just being unified

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