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A friend sent me this (not sure why- maybe she thought I should know this??) and co-signed it. Do you think this is on point?

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk out.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the ''together time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with
her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women!!

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Originally posted by ddouble:
Do you think this is on point?

I'll vote on each part individually.

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Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Not quite. Girls and grown women always know when you haven't called them. But, grown women know that "checking" only drives a man away.

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Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

On Point. tfro

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Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk out.

No... nono girls do both of these things. Grown women are more carefull about choosing their partners. Therefore, good sex is a priority. A grown woman is more likely to choose a path that will produce better sex next time, or this time for that matter.

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Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.

No... nono girls only make you come. Grown women do both.

quote:
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the ''together time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with
her own friends!

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

No... nono whether or not a guy crying is seen as weak depends on the frequency and the situation. A guy who cries all the time, or cries over petty crap, will be seen as weak even by grown women.

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Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

On Point. tfro

quote:
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-- and move on, without bitterness.

On Point. tfro

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Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women!!

Well, we'll just have to see, won't we... Cool

All together, I give it a 66% on the "On Point" scale. fro

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