Hello everyone. I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months now and from day one, I felt like he was a major player. I don't know if I'm just being paranoid or if it's my intuition. How do you tell the difference?
Some of the things that he does that makes me think he's a dog:
Our first date was out to dinner and he had about 5 phone calls that he accepted. He told me that they were all friends and that he had lots of girlfriends. He now turns his cell phone off when around me because I was not gonna deal with it.
When we were watching the game together, I picked up his phone to use it and he had 9 messages. I told him he had 9 messages and that he should check them. he said, "no, I'll check them later. It can't be that important." Then he proceeded to check only one message.....
He has to look hard at everyone that walks by. Sometimes, I can't tell if he's checking females out or just curiously looking at people. He says he loves to "people watch".
He's always got something going on every weekend. He's either going out of town or having someone come visit him from out of town.
So, I can't connect with him emotionally with all these behaviors spinning around in my head.
Last night we went to dinner then, we came back to my place and watched a little TV. he tried to hold my hand and be affectionate with me. I was so turned off. Even though it's been a couple of months, I still don't know what to think of him.
Am I being paranoid?