...so as to get your thoughts.
I introduced my girl to this guy a few months ago. They exchanged emails, text messages, and sometimes phone calls. Then, they finally hooked up (it was actually a group of us together) and they seemed to hit it off.
He then began to be sporadic in his dealings with her--sometimes returning phone calls, texts, emails and stuff, other times not. Finally, she told him she was tired of it, then finally he visited her at her crib and they 'got down'. The visits began to become infrequent for a while. Once again, she told him she was finished with all of that, then they began to become more frequent, only with a twist.
He now comes over and has dinner then 'dessert'. He's just moved into a new apartment, but she's never been there. They've never been anywhere on a date. The only time he comes around in public is when we're in a group, much like we'll be in a group hanging out tonight. She claims that he invited her over and that she's going over there tonight after we all hook up for dinner.
I'm now getting the stories 3rd party as I grew weary of hearing about it all the time, and I let her know this indirectly.
My questions to the brothas:
Is he just using her for a bedding down and a free meal?
Was I wrong for growing tired as hell of hearing about how she was gonna be finished with him just to end up telling me that he was coming over again?
Of course, sistahs comments are always welcome.