quote:Originally posted by HonestBrother:
I'm not even saying that women should "lower" their standards.
Then what are you doing in this thread? The standards are what they are. The "cream" is what it is. Why do you give a shit what we consider the best to be unless you want us to change it BY LOWERING IT TO INCLUDE YOU AND YOUR PEERS? Isn't that your gripe? The cut-off is too high for your liking? Why should women give a shit what is to your liking with respect to the mates we choose??
See my point?
quote:But my point is not that women need to "lower" their vision. They need to broaden/expand their vision.
That is bullshit semantics. There IS a hierarchy. The top is the top. PERIOD. Men put women in a hierarchy as well. Don't come encouraging women to "broaden" jack shit. We already do. We make a whole lot of compromises because of the plethora of men who are not about SHIT who are circulating in the dating pool. We make the MOST compromises when it comes to dating, so men need to go kick rocks somewhere before they start doling out "advice." We would not be in this piss-poor situation if it wasn't for the failings of Black men. Ugh.