i met this woman a few weeks back, didn't really get to know her too well. Our schedules were pretty messed up, so that first date was delayed for a minute. Anyway, as soon as we had a free day to hang, one of the first thing she asked me was 'how long would I date a woman before i'd propose??'...With the heck?? on a first date?? Man, that's pretty husband hungry, bruhs have you experienced this?? I hope it just ain't me!!! Mad

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i guess, but i thought that you'd married the one you loved, not the one that was in front of you at the time. My friend said that i should have asked her would she ever consider eloping or having a very small wedding. I guess that's the true test of love

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This woman did not represent women anymore than men who like to string women alone for years without commitment represent men. Some women may be more aggressive than others and I am sure this is because they have promised themselves that they would no longer waste time with men who are neither doing anything nor going any place or refuse to commit to a monogamous relationship. Men are stringing women alone all over, which basically equal to using them until the next piece of ass comes alone. Mature women and especially women above the age of thirty for the most part are not looking for a quick fling or a sex partner. There are men out there who are looking for something serious but run into women who do not want anything serious and are not ready to settle down. It would seem this woman you went on a date with is looking for something serious, and in her quest for a serious relationship she believe it is necessary to ask a man how long would he date a woman before he think it is time to get married. I bet this woman has been down a road with a man who she spent five years or more with and he never asked her to marry him. I know some women who say if he has not asked after three years he will never ask. There is some truth in that but it is not absolute.

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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
i met this woman a few weeks back, didn't really get to know her too well. Our schedules were pretty messed up, so that first date was delayed for a minute. Anyway, as soon as we had a free day to hang, one of the first thing she asked me was 'how long would I date a woman before i'd propose??'...With the heck?? on a first date?? Man, that's pretty husband hungry, bruhs have you experienced this?? I hope it just ain't me!!! Mad

Radio lets be fair, I don't think a woman asking, ' how long would you date a woman before you propose" is a bad thing at all. Heck! I wish all our women were like that - focused.

The problem is we men have never had it so good we can experiment with as many women as we want and leave the women carrying the babies derived from our adventures. The unfortunate thing is many women have bought into this farce, they forget they are like flowers that bloom for a short while. Many of our women allow themselves to be tossed about like football and when they lose their appeal find themselves left on the shelves and with tons of children to raise.

It is good to hear there are sensible black women out there who want to know your motives for dating them. It is good to know that many of our women have pride and dignity and want to settle down with a man as quickly as possible before the children come along. It is good to know that some of our women see being together as a family with a husband is an ideal to aspire to.....etc...

Coming back to your encounter, if it was your daughter in this situation, wouldn't you be proud of her when you hear that is how she approached her date?

I think we have to start demanding more from our women because they are the ones that becomes our mothers, think about it.

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Originally posted by henry38:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
i met this woman a few weeks back, didn't really get to know her too well. Our schedules were pretty messed up, so that first date was delayed for a minute. Anyway, as soon as we had a free day to hang, one of the first thing she asked me was 'how long would I date a woman before i'd propose??'...With the heck?? on a first date?? Man, that's pretty husband hungry, bruhs have you experienced this?? I hope it just ain't me!!! Mad

Radio lets be fair, I don't think a woman asking, ' how long would you date a woman before you propose" is a bad thing at all. Heck! I wish all our women were like that - focused.

The problem is we men have never had it so good we can experiment with as many women as we want and leave the women carrying the babies derived from our adventures. The unfortunate thing is many women have bought into this farce, they forget they are like flowers that bloom for a short while. Many of our women allow themselves to be tossed about like football and when they lose their appeal find themselves left on the shelves and with tons of children to raise.

It is good to hear there are sensible black women out there who want to know your motives for dating them. It is good to know that many of our women have pride and dignity and want to settle down with a man as quickly as possible before the children come along. It is good to know that some of our women see being together as a family with a husband is an ideal to aspire to.....etc...

Coming back to your encounter, if it was your daughter in this situation, wouldn't you be proud of her when you hear that is how she approached her date?

I think we have to start demanding more from our women because they are the ones that becomes our mothers, think about it.

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i agree with your outlook. I guess I was just shocked by the bluntness. If that were my daughter, hopefully she would not feel that she'd have to do that on a first date, but I would like her to be focused on marriage.

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Somebody put roots on me Frown


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