Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
i met this woman a few weeks back, didn't really get to know her too well. Our schedules were pretty messed up, so that first date was delayed for a minute. Anyway, as soon as we had a free day to hang, one of the first thing she asked me was 'how long would I date a woman before i'd propose??'...With the heck?? on a first date?? Man, that's pretty husband hungry, bruhs have you experienced this?? I hope it just ain't me!!!
Radio lets be fair, I don't think a woman asking, ' how long would you date a woman before you propose" is a bad thing at all. Heck! I wish all our women were like that - focused.
The problem is we men have never had it so good we can experiment with as many women as we want and leave the women carrying the babies derived from our adventures. The unfortunate thing is many women have bought into this farce, they forget they are like flowers that bloom for a short while. Many of our women allow themselves to be tossed about like football and when they lose their appeal find themselves left on the shelves and with tons of children to raise.
It is good to hear there are sensible black women out there who want to know your motives for dating them. It is good to know that many of our women have pride and dignity and want to settle down with a man as quickly as possible before the children come along. It is good to know that some of our women see being together as a family with a husband is an ideal to aspire to.....etc...
Coming back to your encounter, if it was your daughter in this situation, wouldn't you be proud of her when you hear that is how she approached her date?
I think we have to start demanding more from our women because they are the ones that becomes our mothers, think about it.
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