Originally posted by naturallyme:
I did cut him off completely becuase I am not going to hold onto someone who doesnt know if he wants to hold on to me.
You know what sistah. Shhh. Just stop. No more. Calm down. Don't worry about him anymore. Get your mind off that fool. These men wouldn't know a good woman if she landed flat in their faces. They're waiting for some fat ugly white bitch to come along, someone who only needs them for sex and will never require them to confront the harsh realities of manhood. But a black man who has his shit together (and consequently will have better taste in women) is waiting for you sistah. You only need to be patient. Wait on the good Spirit. And when that next prospect comes along, don't behave defensively, but guard your heart. Because you will be wiser, stronger in spirit, and ready to share a new experience with him. Your man is coming.