Reference: By JWC
Each of us....each of us...is empowered to determine our individual identity.
Well, I dunno about that, JWC. It seems to me that while you
say that each of us is empowered to determine our own individual identity you are not happy with the identity that some people have chosen for themselves! And, even more, would prefer that they choose an identity of
your choosing, instead of their own!
White people - excuse me, European Americans - have called us whatever they wanted to call us for centuries, now! And, I think probably about the only thing we actually agree on about this is that they, indeed, have no right to define/identify us as a people!
Such identification, IMO, is irrelevant and besides the point of anything important. So, let them say what they want to ... at this point, their opinion doesn't count!
As you know, back in the '60s, the declaration of "Black" as an identity was a SELF-declaration!! We didn't adopt the word "Black" as an identity because that's what White people wanted to call us or even what they wanted us to call ourselves! In fact, it was widely accepted at the time that the word "Negro" was the politically-correct definition of the day.
"Black" was our SELF-declaration of SELF-identity. The opinion of *others* regarding that was irrelevant. We took pride in, claimed it, owned it, and demanded that all due and necessary respect be given to it. Even though it scared the bejeezus out of the Europeans, they
did, in fact, adhere to that demand.
As I've said before, I consider "Black" and "African American" wholly interchangeable ... although "Black" does have a more far reaching inclusion of all African people. "African American" is specific to us in this country as a nationality. But there are Black people all over this world!
For me, Black is much easier/faster to say/type than African American which is why I use it more often. It has nothing to do with my lack of self-identity - I know full well who and what I am - ... and everything to do with efficiency. Period. You can read more into it if you wish ... but there simply isn't any more to it than that.
The (self-) declaration of being "Black .... and proud" had nothing ... let me repeat - NOTHING - to do with *color* ... to those who declared it with the intent of SELF-identification. It was (and still is) a state of mind, a state of being and a state of belonging -
regardless of any alternate interpretation by or for White folks. We didn't care what they thought then ... and seemingly care even less about it now!
People, like me, who SELF-identify as "Black" are NOT confused about who they are. And in fact, I would surmise that we're much more securing in our identity than a lot of other folks, especially throughout the Diaspora, who somehow look in the mirror at their dark skin and still deny their African roots! Not
that is what you call confusion!

However ...what I also find somewhat confusing is if, as you say,
"Each of us....each of us...is empowered to determine our individual identity", but yet, in the same breath you condemn someone's choice of individual self-identification as mistaken identity, misinformed opinion or an invalid choice simply because don't like/prefer that identity for yourself ... how do you reconcile that?

Do we have our own individual choice or not? And is our choice somehow wrong/invalid/incorrect just because you don't think it's appropriate?