the sex might not be happening at any frequency anyway--so with holding it is a mute point.
Unfortunately, this is true.
I feel that we are close friends. Sometimes I think we'll end up staying married, but living separate lives except for our kids. You probably know some couples like this.
We can and have talked about the big issues over and over, but things don't change. One issue has to do with his neglect of grooming. Without getting specific - its something that would make anyone unappealing visually and for up close times. We talked, I ranted and raged, I involved his parents. Finally, he went to start treatment for this problem. But, when it hurted (because he neglected it for so long) he stopped the treatment. We're back to square one.
I get tired of having to bring up the issue and begging him to get something done. It's like having a big, hard-headed teenager.
The funny thing is that he can't understand why I not all into him. When one partner doesn't care about his/her appearance anymore, what can the other partner do?? :broscream
I feel like I'm on Dr. Phil or something.