Why do so many black women have an excuse for everything they do wrong in their relationships? They keep falling for the same no good negroes and the excuses are:
1. "You can't help who you fall in love with."
2. "There are no good black men left" when you know good and got damn well that ain't true.
3. "Good men are so hard to find we don't know how to act when a good one does come along."
Why do women not only defend but also look for sympathy for making their poor decisions yet ridicule and criticize men for making the same if not similar poor decisions? Too many women act as if the women that choose these sorry ass men are helpless and powerless in the situation like women are wild animals or mindless livestock. Why are so many sisters so incapable of making sound decisions when dealing with brothers? At the very least it's understandable that people make mistakes. But when you keep making the same mistakes with the same brother(s) who is really to blame?
When it comes to ridiculing brothers sisters always like to use that line: "You are what you attract", so what does that make the black women that keep on attracting the same abusive, lazy, neglectful, unemployed or underemployed or unemployable, irresponsible dudes? Somebody tell me what's up.