I was the opposite. I never like bad boys cuz they were bullies and always chased me in junior and high school. I stayed away from them and liked the kind and respectful boys. But I have to admit during those times I was a tomboy. So I didn't do things that young women did back then to attract boys/men. However, I do believe once the kind and respectful men start believing that Black women are not on their side, they go to white women who are trained to be slaves to the "men" in order that they will be taken care of by those men. Some men don't wanna deal with everything that is black because of the oppression and lean toward being with women that they do not have to prove/protect/respect cuz for the most part white women have that national respect/protection from society [and parts of the world] and therefore black men don't have to anything for them but have enough money [and status] to be worthy in the eyes of the white world. And this is why the natural shift between black men and women will never take place again. Because white supremacy separated us during slavery and tried to separate during Jim Crow. They have done everything possible to keep us from being together.
So. For me [and just me] I am totally disappointed and insulted that some Black men today select rancid, unclean, ignorant self-entitled white women to lay with cuz when I see them together I am reminded of the descendants of those women beheading black babies [of their white husbands] while black women still had to continue to take care of white babies. That stays stuck in my mind always and I don't understand why Black men can make such a choice. They have been hunted, raped, castrated by white supremacy and still want to hang on to that white piece of whatever it is. But! These experiences in slavery/ Jim Crow are so deep-it has transformed into a gene and that gene mutated [through the years] into this i.e. Black men attempting to get their humanness by being with white women. Plus it seems that Black men are too easy to forget the violent past [even tho this past still occurs with police brutality] but not me. I rememba! So. My issue isn't that Black men are with white women, my issue is that Black men seems to want to forget the past and at the same time want to forget what their responsibilities are in their culture as Black men-especially in America. But!