quote:Originally posted by HonestBrother:
I must say ... and I hate to say it ... this brotha is making some sense in this post.
Sounds a lot like my late teens and early 20s.
I can tell you from being there that the few brothas who get into these elite schools tend to be precisely the types that get hated on in high school.
Dating non-blacks in this situation does not reflect a color preference so much as it does a gut level reaction to earlier years of rejection. For a good bit of time I dated white women all the while being more attracted to black women. It took awhile for me to get over my teenage experience.
HB.....this also could be said about sistas that were teased and hated on in high school, etc.
I attended an all white college, and the majority of black guys that dated white girls, were not teased.........because they were popular. These same black men are now running through white women, like locust.
I'll say this.....
It seems as though, white women know how to treat black men..............and the same goes for white men that date black women.
This is an indication, that both black men/women have serious issues, when interacting with each other.
BOTH need to take responsibility for this..........because everything else, is B.S.