Who decides or tells us who we really are? The women who act like there is something wrong with reading a book?
Some girl tried to make a big deal of the word LADY when I was 12. So I looked it up in a dictionary. There are lots of definitions. I picked, "sophisticated woman", but then I had to look up sophisticated. It mean, "knowledgeable of the ways of the world". But after decades I know the world changes and that people are full of lies and misinformation. So being sophisticated is not easy.
What does technology and the Internet do for sophisticated?
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