All over the net I have read stories and anecdotes about bisexual or down low black men.
These men are gay, but they masquerade as straight. They suck dick, take dick up the ass, fuck men in the ass. And still call themselves straight.
What a joke. In some of the stuff I've read, some women blame THEMSELVES for the behavior of these men.
One man said that he started fucking guys because his wife had gained too much weight and he no longer found her desirable. And guess what?
Wifey actually considered that as a legitimate reason for his straying with men.
Well, I posted her a note explaining that she was in no way to blame for her husband's covert sexual encounters with men.
I don't care how corpulent a woman gets, NO STRAIGHT, pussy loving, breasts loving man is going to turn to another man for sex. The very thought would make him regurgitate.
I'm amazed that wifey even considered what he said as a possibility.
He had sex with men because he enjoys men and the pleasure he can derive from them.
I was talking to this white girl, who dates black men exclusively. "Be careful," I warned her.
She frowned. "What are you talking about?"
"Girl, most black men are bisexual," I said. "Most black men who date white women are bi."
Well, I expected her to VEHEMENTLY repudiate what I know to be a fact. But surprise of all surprises, she said, "I know."
"They certainly didn't admit it to you," I said. "So, how do you know?"
"Well, when you date a guy and he's always asking you for certain things in bed. It makes you wonder."
"Girl, did some man ask to fuck you in the ass?" I asked, in no mood for coyness.
She chuckled sheepishly. "Well, yeah. I figure some guy asking me for that type of sex might be gay."
"He is. He prefers gay sex. While he was penetrating you anally, he was probably imaginging that you were some guy he had the hots for."
"And this one guy, I got a feeling he was gay when I first met him. And he asked me for a date, and I told him that I thought he was gay."
"Ooh, what did he say?" I questioned.
He said, 'Naw, girl. Naw, naw. I ain't like that. I don't feel other dudes.' I went out with him and then he tried to get me to do anal."
"Cuz his ass is gay," I said. "Be careful with black men. Always use a condom and ask them to get tested."
I had a chat with this gay guy, Reggie. Reggie and I grew up in the same neighborhood. As adults, we went to gay bars and partied, etc. Reggie told me about sexual encounters he had had with several young men in the neighborhood.
He named many names. He also told me that he did it with my brother. My eyes dilated. "You had sex with my brother?"
"Yeah, girl," Reggie said, laughing, looking embarrassed.
I believed him. My brother is masculine looking and acting. And he always had girls coming around to visit or ringing him up. So it never occurred to me that he had tendencies.
Reggie is open about being gay. I asked him how did men get on the subject of having sex with other men. "The conversation gets on sex," Reggie said. "And they'll get this dumb look on their face and say, 'If a man wants to suck my dick, I'll let him do it.' Or, they'll say, 'I have fucked dudes.'" See, that is their way of letting me know that they're open to a gay encounter. And from there it goes."
Reggie explained that some of them won't do any more than let a guy suck their dick. But he said most of them are willing to fuck and after a while, they will suck dick or take it up their butts.
I asked my brother about his sexual interludes with Reggie. "Girl, you're crazy," he yelled. "I didn't do anything with no goddamn man."
I could tell by his expression that he was lying. And I told my mother about it and naturally, she screamed, "Doug likes girl."
Of course, she was going to defend her baby boy. Black women are quick to defend black men even when they are in the wrong.
"Mama, Doug likes having the best of both worlds. Now, he had sex with Reggie. Reggie would not have said this if it wasn't true. I mean, what would he gain by lying? I believe, Reggie."
My brother continued to fiercely deny being bisexual. "Would you be willing to take a lie detector test?" I said. "I'll pay for it."
I figured that if I flipped through the yellow pages, I could have found someone to administer a polygragh for a fee.
"I ain't takin' no motherfuckin' lie detector test," my brother snarled. When he got enraged, his language became very street. "I don't have to prove shit to you."
"What if I paid you a thousand bucks. You take the test and let me see the results and I'll pay you a grand for your troubles."
"I'm not doing that," he said.
"You're refusing to do it because you know that test will prove incontrovertibly that you like having sex with men."
My mother got pissed with me. She accused me of trying to demean my brother. Black women are always defending black men and if a black woman doesn't jump on the protect black men bandwagon, well, she is a ball breaking dyke.
There is a reason that more black women have HIV than any other race and that is because of bisexual black men. Watch 'em girls. They will kill you.