I'm here because a dear friend said some of the men here don't know how to treat a lady and she felt I could add some insight

Frankly, some of the things said to her would get someone beatdown if I could reach them...
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Hi! wel to the Board!

It's a shame she couldn't have thought of a more positive aspect of the board to bring you here! sck

While your insight in that particular area won't be necessary for me personally (the REAL men here treat me very well! Smile) I hope there were be other insights you will be able to share!
Oh ... I see sck

Well, admittedly, you didn't come here looking for any.

And with comments like:

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Originally posted by El Tigre:
Sweetheart, there's nothing a female can do to me except, be a bitch - and, that makes HER look bad.

Beyond that, you're not one of my women and therefore, not on my radar and are of no consequence. Just a vagina with an attitude...


.... it's no wonder you're not finding any. Frown

And, just on a personal note ... if you are the type of men that your dear friend believes is an asset to the community here .... I hope she doesn't invite anyone else to the Board. Eek
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Originally posted by El Tigre:
Also, I'm already being insulted. So, I guess positivity is where you can find it.

Peace.


For what it's worth - strong opinions always draw strong reactions. Wink

you won't be the first or the last to be "insulted" on this forum.
Let me see here...

Some women insult me and tell me what I'm gonna be like when they're done with me - threaten me.

So, I inform them that they couldn't do anything but, act a bitch (I didn't call anyone a bitch).

But, you have a problem with a MAN defending himself and beating off stupid, attacking, insulting cocky foolish females who obviously don't get checked by MEN often enough.

What I see is women who have been getting away with stepping to men like they're men and think they have the power to overcome a REAL MAN.

That's a joke. Y'all weren't built to combat any man worth his slat - we have instincts specifically for conflict, if you want some.

But, y'all been messing around with weak men and it has emboldened you. An attacking female is as nothing before a man but, p*ssy with a problem.

So, I will speak to ladies like a gentlemen and I will speak to stupid hoes like a pimp.

I've been a member here for awhile and I only bothered to post today because I have some friends here who asked me to peep this.

I don't care if I'm banned - this isn't home to me, I have my own soite and a life.

So, I don't have anything to lose and any big mouth broad that wants to take some lumps is welcome to swing first.

OTHERWISE, I came in peace.
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What I see is women who have been getting away with stepping to men like they're men and think they have the power to overcome a REAL MAN.

That's a joke. Y'all weren't built to combat any man worth his slat - we have instincts specifically for conflict, if you want some.


Actually, African history proves this view wrong...

"I must say this: if you the men of Asante will not go forward, then we will. We the women will. I shall call upon my fellow women. We will fight the white men. We will fight till the last of us falls in the battlefields."

-Nana Yaa Asantewaa Queen Mother of Ejisu

She is known to history as the leader of the Ashanti rebellion against British colonialism in 1900.

During the 1st march against the South African Apartheid Pass Laws, the all female marchers sang a freedom song: Wathint' abafazi, Strijdom!

"wathint' abafazi,
wathint' imbokodo,
uza kufa!

[When] you strike the women,
you strike a rock,
you will be crushed [you will die]!"

The phrase wathint' abafazi, wathint' imbokodo has come to represent women's courage and strength in South Africa.

In the meeting for the march the men refused to attend, the lead women slashed her face with a knife saying she is not afraid to bleed for her people and asked who would stand with her.

Do I even have to mention Queen Nzinga?

Women run the marketplace in West Africa. You need to check what cultural reference you are coming from.
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Originally posted by El Tigre:
Let me see here...

Some women insult me and tell me what I'm gonna be like when they're done with me - threaten me.


El Tigre ...

The only thing I find problematic about your defense is that the women involved in the attack upon you are members here who have always shown a past propensity for liking the truly unlikable!!

I know you've been a member for a while, but you haven't posted before now and obviously don't know or realize that the language used towards you has probably not been uttered by those particular women before ... even towards those that are most deserving of it.

Just FYI... I am usually the one who doesn't hold her tongue ... not them, they are always much more gracious than I ... and I'm really surprised that they "stepped" to you in the manner that they did. However, from what I've read so far, you stepped into the Sister's Spot first ... and basically threw the first stone with your less than gracious opinions about women in general. You preceded that with continuously referring to us as "niggas" in the Issues forum.

Of course, you are at liberty to say whatever you want to and post anything you like, but you, by your own admission, came here to teach the fellas here some lessons, you didn't hesitate to attach the women here and find no offense in anything you've done. You make no apologies for your disrespect ... and so I'm having a little trouble understanding why you are not accepting in return the same type of hostility that you are offering!!

I mean, let's face it ... you didn't get "attacked" just for saying "Hi, Ladies. How are you?" You got attacked for going into a Ladies Forum and referring to women ... black women ... as a bitches (amonst other more offensive things). Perhaps you shouldn't have done that. Roll Eyes
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Originally posted by El Tigre:
I'm here because a dear friend said some of the men here don't know how to treat a lady and she felt I could add some insight

Frankly, some of the things said to her would get someone beatdown if I could reach them...




If this was your intent.......then you should have handled 'this' situation.

You decided to attack the sistas...........this was a bitch move, dont you think?

Please believe.......im not thin skinned and could care less of you calling me a bitch, or anything else....that was laughable at best!

You said this...

"I've been a member here for awhile and I only bothered to post today because I have some friends here who asked me to peep this".

If you and YOUR CREW, have issues with members on the board.......HANDLE IT.

Leave the rest of the board to peace.

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