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Re: The Arrogance of Men and The Naivety of Women

RadioRaheem ·
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Re: FINALLY SOME GOOD ADVICE!!! -How To Get A Man In Four Weeks Or Less - If You Want One

RadioRaheem ·
one of the reasons why the black man shortage myth is just that is because not all of the women in that 'ratio' are desireable or seeking positive men in their lives. Women are quick to eliminate men who are non-degreed, but never eliminate women with kids. Which is a 'harder' dating situation?? dating a degree-less man or dating a babymomma? I think the babymomma is harder because her kids must come first in her life and require a great deal of her time. Also, what if the kids don't like...
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Re: How to Date A Single Dad

Sandye ·
The article makes several good points, however, I think it sugarcoats the "baby mama/daddy drama" that affects many of these types of relationships. When a couple have a child, there is an eternal connection. Even though they no longer wish to have a relationship with the other parent, they play vicious games and can cause great pain perhaps because they are still going through the pain of their separation/divorce. Some biological parents won't speak to the step-parent for any reason and are...
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Re: How to Date A Single Dad

FireFly ·
I like children, but, for the reasons above - and many others - I avoid ever dating any man with children under 21, and preferably with none at all. So far, I've been lucky. [insert relieved face icon here] I never say never, but it's as close to never as it's possible to get.
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Re: How to Date A Single Dad

Frenchy ·
I'm not saying that two people know if they will be getting married after a few months. I said that they should know whether or not the relationship is serious by that point, and if it is, introductions, concessions, and compromises need to be made. I don't think the teenage girl is too young to understand either (especially since she's about at the age where she has her own interest in the opposite sex). She might not want to let go of the foul behavior, but she knows what time it is. I...
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Re: How to Date A Single Dad

xxGAMBITxx ·
Speaking as one of these single dads (as in actually RAISING my kid), I gotta give some props to the article. But it does come off as leaning toward the idea that the man is the non-custodial parent. What if he's a full time daddy? Dealing with the issues of the kids being in the picture just about 24/7? Just my thoughts..........
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Re: I finally found the Black women's reply to the "Where is the love?'" from Tampa

RadioRaheem ·
My take on Part One:...in bold When elementary school teacher Patti Hairston picked up Monday's edition of the St. Petersburg Times, she braced herself. "I knew there would be negative things said about black women by black men," she said. very interesting, esp. since the writer of the original article was merely seeking the 'other side' of the Essence article. Lori Chung, 28, associate TV news producer, single, Brooklyn Personally, I don't feel the love from black men to black women and...
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Re: Asking too much?

MidLifeMan ·
You obviously have a good head and heart. There is NOTHING wrong with your reasoning. Everyone that has responded gave some very good advice. I learned a very important lesson at a very early age and it helped me to avoid making some bad decisions. The lesson I learned is that TRUE friends accept you for who and what you are. A real friend is not going to "encourage" you to do something that you don't want to do or would cause harm. I wish more young people could learn this and stop making...
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Re: What about dating single mums?

Black Viking ·
All my life I've avoided it for reasons too numerous to even go into. But the older I get it becomes more and more unavoidable (I'd rather date a single mom than a woman between the ages of 18 and 22). All I can say is she would have to be very, very special for me to deal with the inevitable complications (and she better be older than 22). If I had a choice, I would also prefer that the father be her ex-husband rather than her "baby-daddy".
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Re: What about dating single mums?

HonestBrother ·
Ditto. The same here. The older I get, it becomes more and more unavoidable. I've dated single moms and it seems like the only other choices my age are the 30 something super-professional hyper-religious virgins... And these women are off limits for other reasons. So I now find myself looking at 20 somethings....
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Re: My dad's barbershop -- and personal responsibility

Kevin41 ·
I wonder if CF is his son or little brother? I wonder if my spam alert disconnected the program that we thought was self-hater#1..I haven't seen a post od his...and do not get me wrong...I do not miss his azz........at all...... read this bullschit: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The (Blue) State Of The Union Address -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Posted: February 2, 2006 1:00 a.m. Eastern...
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Re: Could You Handle Instant Wealth?

bigddouble ·
Guess it's the accountant in me... Sugar Daddy/Mamma You spent $780000! With as much money as you have left over, you are the Sugar Daddy/Mamma. Gold diggers would love to hook up with you to get a piece of your diversified financial pie. Your savings account is strong since you have left a considerable amount of your money unspent, which is good should any problems arise with your new purchases. You can also use the savings to invest if you so choose. My test tracked 2 variables How you...
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Re: Could You Handle Instant Wealth?

MidLifeMan ·
Sugar Daddy/Mamma You spent $720000! With as much money as you have left over, you are the Sugar Daddy/Mamma. Gold diggers would love to hook up with you to get a piece of your diversified financial pie. Your savings account is strong since you have left a considerable amount of your money unspent, which is good should any problems arise with your new purchases. You can also use the savings to invest if you so choose. If you liked my test please rate it highly below, and feel free to send me...
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Re: Could You Handle Instant Wealth?

MBM ·
Sugar Daddy/Mamma You spent $650,000! With as much money as you have left over, you are the Sugar Daddy/Mamma. Gold diggers would love to hook up with you to get a piece of your diversified financial pie. Your savings account is strong since you have left a considerable amount of your money unspent, which is good should any problems arise with your new purchases. You can also use the savings to invest if you so choose.
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Re: Could You Handle Instant Wealth?

xxGAMBITxx ·
Sugar Daddy/Mamma You spent $640000! With as much money as you have left over, you are the Sugar Daddy/Mamma. Gold diggers would love to hook up with you to get a piece of your diversified financial pie. Your savings account is strong since you have left a considerable amount of your money unspent, which is good should any problems arise with your new purchases. You can also use the savings to invest if you so choose. If you liked my test please rate it highly below, and feel free to send me...
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Re: Discribe posters as a Drink

Frenchy ·
Why is that? My List: MBM - Martini, very dry with a twist . So much like James Bond, disappearing from the board for awhile and then returning with something sleek to say. And I don't even think I've seen you lose your cool. Such a mystery. Sandye - Cosmopolitan . Always mellow and sophisticated. Audio Guy - Pina Colada . Tropical, sweet, and somehow both damn fresh and traditional. kresge - Diesel (1/2 pint Lager, 1/2 pint Cider). Doesn't fit neatly into any particular category, but...
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Re: Could You Handle Instant Wealth?

FireFly ·
Sugar Mamma You spent $830000! With as much money as you have left over, you are the Sugar Daddy/Mamma. Gold diggers would love to hook up with you to get a piece of your diversified financial pie. Your savings account is strong since you have left a considerable amount of your money unspent, which is good should any problems arise with your new purchases. You can also use the savings to invest if you so choose. My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and...
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Re: You can't help who you love

HeruStar ·
LOVE needs to stop being the format for a 'conscious' rebellion against morality and society. LOVE needs to stop being blamed for our intentional indiscretions. LOVE needs to quit being used as the inadvertant culprit in the crime against the flow of nature, the flow of society, and the flow of life. The 16/17/18 year old daughter that says... "But Daddy I love him" Gets no 'love' sympathy from me The son that says "But Daddy I love him" Gets no 'love' sympathy from me These and many other...
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Re: I'm In Love With A Stripper?

HonestBrother ·
Artist/Band: Cash Johnny Lyrics for Song: Cocaine Blues Lyrics for Album: At Folsom Prison Early one mornin' while makin' the rounds I took a shot of cocaine and I shot my woman down I went right home and I went to bed I stuck that lovin' .44 beneath my head Got up next mornin' and I grabbed that gun Took a shot of cocaine and away I run Made a good run but I ran too slow They overtook me down in Juarez, Mexico Late in the hot joints takin' the pills In walked the sheriff from Jericho Hill...
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Re: I'm In Love With A Stripper?

HonestBrother ·
John Lee Hooker One Bourbon, One Scotch, One Beer One bourbon, one scotch, and one beer One bourbon, one scotch, and one beer Hey mister bartender come here I want another drink and I want it now My baby she gone, she been gone two night I ain't seen my baby since night before last One bourbon, one scotch, and one beer (spoken: ) And then I sit there Gettin' high Mellow Knocked out Feeling good And by the time I look on the wall At the old clock on the wall By that time It was ten thirty...
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Re: One Man Battling the Democratic Party

1milehi ·
http://adeebafolami.com/archives/2006/perryman2.html
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Re: Conspiracy Theorists: What's With the Ports?

Fine ·
The Bush Family and the anomaly called Al-Quaidas are thick as thieves. Starting with the daddy, they've been shaking hand, hugging-kissing and cutting snide little back table deals for decades with the Saudis....! Doesn't anyone remember Fahrenheit 911? I'm not a bit surprised to hear of this new development. It's all a dayum facade anyway. 1. the gub'ment doesn't run shit. the two-party game covers up the Hegalian Dialectic system--the real operative at work 24/7. 2. the feveral reserve...
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Re: Projecting U.S. Population to 2050

Kevin41 ·
Man that brother gets accolades from the same people in Orange County who used to celebrate how white their area was....Terry is a stone trip and I think he does it more for donations than concern for the community....I really do see him coming from the premise of the same people who protested his mama and daddy moving on west adams in LA...black folks should know better...he says a lot of racist schit about mexicans running down the neighborhood and all that...his neighborhood been run-down...
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Re: Black Like GOP

telltruth ·
The Republican Party was the first major political party that were openly against slavery. The Republican Party fought for the emancipation of slavery. President Abe Lincoln-Republican Prez freed the Slaves. Civil Rights Acts of 1866 and 1875 was passed by Republicans. Republicans passed the Civil Rights Acts of 1957 and 1960. Republicans passed the Civil Rights Act of 1965 (Al Gore's daddy voted against it). The Republican Party help found the NAACP Prominent Republicans sponsored, funded,...
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Re: Black Like GOP

Black Viking ·
I won't deny any of the above, Mr. Telltruth. Now, if you would be so kind, please give me an example of something the Republican Party has done for me, during my lifetime, that would earn them my current, living, and breathing vote.
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Re: Black Like GOP

alonzo ·
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Re: Black Like GOP

alonzo ·
The Republican Party was the first major political party that were openly against slavery. The Republican Party fought for the emancipation of slavery. President Abe Lincoln-Republican Prez freed the Slaves. Civil Rights Acts of 1866 and 1875 was passed by Republicans. Republicans passed the Civil Rights Acts of 1957 and 1960. Republicans passed the Civil Rights Act of 1965 (Al Gore's daddy voted against it). The Republican Party help found the NAACP Prominent Republicans sponsored, funded,...
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Re: Black Like GOP

Dissident ·
The Democrats of today are the Republicans of the pre-FDR, New Deal era. You know this. Those bedsheet-wearing, redneck Dixiecrats left the Democratic party after the New Deal to join the Republicans you see today. I guess they felt right at home with the Republikkkans. Tell the truth, Mr. "Telltruth."
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Re: Black Like GOP

Kweli4Real ·
And [if you believe the Christian mythology of Eden] there once was a time when man [woman] was without sin. My, how times have changed. Now Tell the Truth, Telltruth, You don't really believe that your argument holds any weight outside of the Republican National Committee Thinktank that first promoted the argument, do you?
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Re: Black Like GOP

Yemaya ·
Again like Janet Jackson says, "What have you done for me lately?" You can bring up all of these facts, but what about things that are being done now? Are they still funding these groups and schools you mentioned? I can tell you the picture isn't so rosy on this side, and I'm 34. Maybe its not so much the Republican/Democrat thing, but a white man obession with wealth and power?
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Re: Black Like GOP

Empty Purnata ·
While all this is true, this has little relevance today. The Republican Party of Lincoln is not the modern day GOP, today's GOP is the Party of Reagan. The Radical Republicans ( TAKE NOTE OF THE WORD "RADICAL" ) of Lincoln's day were a left-leaning party that supported democratic federalism, more workers' rights, more anti-trust laws, more government crackdown on corruption, government protection of workers, anti-slavery and anti-confederatism. The Party of Lincoln was basically a...
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Re: 911 Helps Boy's Mom Die

TruEssence ·
My heart hurts for Robert! He did everything right! I have repeatedly showed and also tell my daughter to call 911 when there is a emergency and mommy and daddy are not around! So have other parents! I would hate to have the same thing to her! I agree that the system needs to be fixed! It needs to be fixed immediately!!
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Re: Black Like GOP

telltruth ·
Sorry, for the misunderstanding. I didn't give any facts you say?! How about the following verifiable "Facts": 1.The oldest political party in the USA is the Democratic Party 1792. 2.The Republican Party was founded in Michigan in 1854 by abolitionists. 3.They have an elected former Klu Klan Klansman as a Democrat Senator from W.Virginia....was a member of the Klan until he was 40 years old. 4.Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Maxine Waters, The Black Congressional Caucus, Tom Joyner and his...
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Re: Black Like GOP

Huey ·
And let's not forget when Reagan first ran his campaign in 1980, he went to Philadelphia, Mississippi. He could've went to ANY city in the South: Atlanta, Jacksonville, Nashville, MIami, Charlotte, San Antonio... But no. He had to go to the town, where it's only claim to fame (or infamy) is that Philadelphia, MS is the town where Goodwin, Schwerner and Cheney, the three civil rights workers, were brutally killed trying to register black voters. Where were the Republicans when the South were...
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

Shango67 ·
I am gonna venture out on a limb and it will surely break off. But I think Black women get a whole lot of credit for raising kids as a single parent but not enough scrutiny when the wheels fall off the bus. The jails are full of brothers raised by women, special ed classrooms are full of young brothers who are being raised by women, and a whole lot of boys are wearing pink, enrolled in dance classes, dressed up like doll babies and entering manhood completely confused, who were raised by...
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

HonestBrother ·
I got yo back, bro... I got yo back...
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Re: Jokes for a Laugh & a Smile

Fabulous ·
Little Johnny's mother decided to tell him all about making babies, so she had "the talk" with him. Afterwards Little Johnny just sat there silently for awhile. "Do you understand?" his mother asked. "Yes," replied Little Johnny. "Do you have any questions?" asked his Mother. "Yes, how about little kittens and puppies?" asked Little Johnny. "In exactly the same way as with babies", answered his Mom. "Wow!" Little Johnny exclaimed. "My daddy will screw ANYTHING!"
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Re: Jokes for a Laugh & a Smile

HonestBrother ·
More Adventures of Little Johnny Little Johnny went to Sunday school and that day the teacher decided to talk about the Rapture. When she explained what that meant.... that all the believers would meet Jesus in the sky... Little Johnny raised his hand excitedly and could barely wait his turn to speak. When the teacher finally called on him, he asked which part of the body would rise to heaven first. The teacher said, "I really don't know. The Bible doesn't say." Then Little Johnny said, "I...
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

Nikcara ·
I agree with your sentiment. It seems that you, Honestbrother and I have common ground on this issue. Interesting ...... I am however, quite pleased that you said it first because your comments can be reviewed on the merits as opposed to who is the messenger.
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

MidLifeMan ·
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

Nikcara ·
Those are the easiest women to have sex with, the Sure Thing... which is what most men want. Men should avoid women who have children out of wedlock. But they don't. I know more attorneys who will have sex with women who have children, but would never marry those same women. What is they say in Jerry McGuire, you should not take the punanni from the baby moma... words to live by. What I find amusing is men who have sex with women who are multiple baby mamas and fail to use triple protection,...
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Re: The Crisis of African American Motherhood?

calvin ·
I don't think this is about victim blaming or blaming perion. Let's be realistic for a second...Is it too much for a woman to ask a man if he has any kids, does he take care of his kids, how, does he have a legal job, what are his career goals, did he graduate from High School? I think these few questions will allow many women the ability to sort out the majority of potential dead beats off the back. It is not fair that women should have to accept the majority of the pressure when it comes...
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Re: Kennedy calls case for war a 'fraud'

Kevin41 ·
Well at least Bubba did not have to blame his problems on the administration that preceded him. It is funny to watch this country in shambles and the loyalists still try to defend W as if he as done ANYTHING right.....ya'll (Texan) crack me up....... sunnubian, This country is getting pimped so hard it is unbelievable. Once you observe the mindset of the blind patriotic fool loyalists, then you see how W was able to manipulate them to be flag wavers while he gratifies his ego with Sadam...
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Re: Nigerian Mother freed from barbaric practice

EbonyRose ·
Yes, Thank God, indeed!! This is definitely very, very, VERY good news!! However .... the baby's daddy sounds like he could stand to have couple of stones going his way!! BLACK by NATURE, PROUD by CHOICE. Free your mind, and the rest will follow.
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Re: CHRISTIANS how do you expect to get along in this world thinking like this?

shebakoby ·
Reposted from the ISSUES Forum. http://www.cnn.com/2003/US/10/16/rumsfeld.boykin.ap/index.html OK now you reaaaaaaaaaaally don't understand. It's OK if they hate us! Because they are hating us for a b.s. reason! Christ said the World would hate His followers. And that's exactly what it does. Christ tells people to rejoice when peole persecute them for believing in Him. Matt. 5 [10] Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. [11]...
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Re: And They Cast Truth To The Ground!

Prophetessofrage ·
Aw, you're back and at it real early eh? Okay, I do thank you for being EXHIBIT A live specimen of what I was telling black women with regard to truth demolishing it's enemies. Still I'm going to put a stop to you making a spectacle of yourself. It'll be a mercy killing. Then if you insist on coming on this BLACK WOMAN'S SITE to speak solely to this FIXATION you have with that GENERAL COMMENT I made on the MARY MAGDALENE issue, It''ll be a good laugh but kind of played out. Let me SPELL IT...
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Re: Mary Magdalene: Prostitute or Apostle?

Prophetessofrage ·
Aw, you're back and at it real early eh? Okay, I do thank you for being EXHIBIT A live specimen of what I was telling black women with regard to truth demolishing it's enemies. Still I'm going to put a stop to you making a spectacle of yourself. It'll be a mercy killing. Then if you insist on coming on this BLACK WOMAN'S SITE to speak solely to this FIXATION you have with that GENERAL COMMENT I made on the MARY MAGDALENE issue, It''ll be a good laugh but kind of played out. Let me SPELL IT...
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Re: Black Women and Ward Connelly

Huey ·
I have to agree to disagree on this subject, simply for the fact is that interracial relations aren't destroying the black family. Black folks are destroying the black family. We have no one to blame but ourselves. Why you may ask? Because many of us aren't marrying each other. We're not going extinct or anything because we're reproducing. The PROBLEM is that 70% of black children are born out of wedlock. That's not the fault of interracial dating, that's baby's mama and baby's daddy not...
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Re: Black Women and Ward Connelly

Prophetessofrage ·
Hi Huey, I just came across your comments. Yes I agree with you, the problem isn't IR dating. I don't think that is what any of us women in the original discourse was saying. What we were saying was how do we factor this in to our well-being. The fact is, we chart our own course and take chare of our bottom rung status. We black women are the ones who have beheld the madness and the discussion around it isn't to blame or anything as it's over as far as the old, 'why, why, why?' questions...
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Re: Now about that angel.....

James Wesley Chester ·
Thank you, for asking. This will be "old stuff" for many on the board. So, I will keep to the point. Around 1994, I realized I was not able to give to my children any more than my parents were able to give to me. Of course, I already knew this. It was just that the fullness of the meaning hit anew. My grandchildren were being told by their teachers, and others, that they were "multicultural", and/or biracial. Both descriptions were true. But they were being told this as though these...
 
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