quote:Originally posted by Kweli4Real:
Kweli tip-toes in ... rises hands to show he has no weapons and means no harm ... in he he is seeking to give a wounded Sista a and aquote:I said NOTHING about commitment.
versusquote:And isn't FRIENDSHIP, in itself, a commitment????
Yes, friendships absolutely entail commitment. But in most men's eyes, friendship do not imply exclusivity.
Besides, as Chris Rock [Oh, how I hate his insect looking a$$] said: "[To men] female friends are just women that we haven't f--ked, yet." His underhanded way of dealing with you is evidence of this.
Thank you so much for the affection, Kweli. I didn't mean to make you feel you had to tiptoe. I'm not all THAT sensitive, really. Just mad at this joker. And, honestly, right now, I'm ALMOST over it..
Yeah, see, I didn't even go there with the exclusivity thing until he did. I had another friend at the time we met (whom I had to release b/c he got upset with me for spending time with this dude). I told him about that situation. I don't really understand why he needed to lie to me and then ask me last week "So.....are we still friends?" Was he implying that he wanted to be more or was he just performing a pulse check and, if so, why? I call that mixed signals........
Man, I really hope Chris is wrong because I tend to get along with men better than women! Hope they don't have that in mind because it's not going down. LOL