We are lovely in all of our shades and hair textures. There are some dark sistas with naturals that would put Clarence and Condoleeza to shame. And there are some light women with a weave straight into the next zip code who are ON POINT. Let's move away from jumping to all sorts of conclusions before someone even opens their mouth.
Furthermore, men should really not do this. You all very rarely have even an inkling of what goes on with sista's hair. It is not just perm or natural. There are texturizers, waves, organic perms, comb-throughs, and all sorts of things in between. There are women with naturally straight hair. Qty is a brown-skinned sista who's hair naturally grows straight. You cannot just look at a woman and tell automatically what the hell is in her hair. I could take you down some aisles in Sally's Beauty Supply that would humble that ass! We can do no less than a million and one things with our hair, with chemicals, without chemicals, you name it. Fall back and observe and appreciate whatever beauty is coming your way!