Reply to "Would Black women choose, date, or marry a brother who perms or straightens his hair?"

Shango67A1

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Originally posted by Black Viking:
I've said this before on this subject, but I'll say it again...

Choosing a mate based on their choice of hairstyle is superficial nonsense. There are far more important qualities to be concerned about.

Shango, I agree that I wouldn't want to date a woman consumed by self-hatred. But, the lonely fact that she straightens her hair, or wears a wig, is not rock hard evidence of self-hatred. If she is mired in self-loathing, evidence of it will crop up in many other areas of her life, and you'll see it for what it is. But, If you date her for a while, and your only "evidence" of self-loathing is that she straightens her hair, then you're reading something that's not really there.

Again... it is not the foundation, but it is a start.

4/16/061:23 PM

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