quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by Huey:
This is preposterous. Straight idiocy. How do you compare getting upset when a man dates an "uber hottie" over a "regular" hottie, and a man getting upset when she dates a knucklehead, ruffneck, etc.? It's not even debatable. Is it because there's so many of them in jail, that he has no other choice but to think about his girl? Nobody's ever gotten a life sentence for being too pretty. Any women that turns down a guy for someone that she already KNOWS is no good is deranged. Your male friend hit the nail on the head. Some women really don't want nice guys. That's not a myth, that's the naked truth.
Lets be real........most women do not like knuckleheads,now who are these women???quote:Originally posted by Huey:
Come on, now. Don't get facetious, qty226. You don't have to know them. Whether you know these women are not, isn't the case. Don't act like these women don't exist. How do you think the saying "Nice guys finish last?" came into existence? You think a man made that phrase up in the top of his head?
There was a song in the 80s called "Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Boys?" MC Lyte had a rap called "Gotta Have a Ruffneck."
How much evidence do you need?quote:Originally posted by Huey:
We don't have to show our asses when a woman disses us. We approach the next one, which is easy since women outnumber men anyway.
Do women just don't want good men, or are they allergic to them? From my POV, it's almost as if a woman gets too close to a guy, she might as well be allergic to him, like she's gonna catch a cold or break out into hives if she stays with him.
I think out of everything that you mentioned.......this is what it boils down to...
"We approach the next one, which is easy since women outnumber men anyway."
You have more choices, so there should be less complaints from men, right?? Statistically speaking, yes. Locally speaking, no.
Now, although i do know that there are women that choses to be with knuckleheads (i hate that lame ass word)........the fact is, the 'majority' of women do not.
Start picking different women!!
Where the hell are you located??? There's only 24 hours in a day. A guy can't tell the "majority" from the "minority." IMO, I think the majority is trying to blend in with the minority and vice versa, to the point that they're dating the knucklehead minority of us men. Didn't you read my quotes? "Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Boys?" How much more of a hint do you need that a good number of the female majority like bad boys, along with the minority? Sadly, many of those men pretend to be those knuckleheads because some of the "majority" of women have been sold a bag of goods that these bad boys are the pick of the litter, and that anyone without any knucklehead criteria doesn't even get the time of day.
You need to take heed of your male friend's words. If the majority actually chose to be with decent guys instead of knuckleheads, every single decent dude on the planet would have somebody right now, and every single ruffneck would be crying his eyes out, sitting next to a radio and singing along to some lame-ass JaFool, er JaRule & Ashante "thug love" ballad.