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Reply to "Why do men hurt us?????"

Rowe.... no, sister....My apologies....

sincerely.....

I have much to get through emotionally..... and I have to reign it in when I end up channeling my pain to someone unintended.....




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Originally posted by Rowe:
Oh, ok, well, I just thought that by dating these pool of brothers that you'd have more success with finding someone with whom you have more things in common.


Yes.... That's a good point..... but....

we do not date... in the Nation.... we court..... meaning.... brothers don't ask for sisters unless they wish to marry them.... usually by the time a brother asks for you..... you have pretty much established a working relationship together ...... so "dating" especially more than one brother rarely if ever happens.....


two-- My issue is extremely varied and complex..... I apologize for spilling so much of it here on the board.... but honestly.... I have no where else to place the amount of pain I'm going through..... and I don't always want to whine to same people or end up crying to people I know won't receive me well.....

sometimes I'm just lost in pain.... and confusion.... right at the moment..... and I know in my heart of hearts its important for me to release all of the energy... for my health's sake...... So I write it out.....



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And I apologize if by asking this question I conjured up any more hurt,
Really Rowe.... there is no need for you to apologize... in all sincerity, my sister..... at this stage you could of asked me why is the sky blue and if you were here I would burst into uncontrollable tears..... its not you... its me.... my trial.... my cross to bear.......
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I honestly did not know about your marital status.
I'm sorry I thought you did...... for some reason I don't know..... it was spoken of briefly..... and its not your job to know everything I write or reveal....
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I don't read as many posts as I would like enough to know everyone's background. Sorry again. Frown
I don't expect this of you or anyone.....

Dear Sister.....

I wasn't even really asking for advice......


I was just venting.....

My situation is complex..... and the problems are all solved....

My post was a cry......


Truth be told...... I solve most of my problems on my own....

but after the problems are solved..... life must go on...


Sister Rowe....

please accept my apologies.....

Peace,
Virtue
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