Your topic is endearing...Virtue!
Black men are hurting, too! Some feel the hurt more than others. Societal pressures [seen or unseen] are there nonetheless.
I'm not making excuses, 'cause I really do think that Black males need to work harder to treat the Black woman as the Queen she is...
Sisterhood is not the answer as to 'why do men hurt us' but having true, female friends around cushions the blow...I know!