"who chooses who is largely irrelevant when most men desire an ongoing choice of a smorgasboard selection."
AMEN TO THAT SISTER! Lusting after the vast selection of women is one thing...getting them to comply is another matter entirely.
Besides, men earned the right to have a smorgasboard, since we tend to be more proactive in the dating arena by taking initiative, attempting to be entertaining and conversating with you women just to get a "sniff". Most men don't have the luxury that women have what with your feminine wiles; you slap on some make-up, put on some tight/revealing clothes along with the veneer that you're always "ten steps ahead of us". ...Sorry, I'm venting. I need to calm the fuck down...OK, and we're back. Anyway..Yeah what art_gurl said.