When I read this, I had the same thoughts as Donna529. What diease did he pick up in the "porn years" that could affect ME!! I would start pulling back because it will come back to haunt me with my accepting attitude. You know what I mean? I say its OK until the subject comes up unexpectly in conversation with folks that don't need to know or I don't want them to know. But, since its no longer a secret to ME, why not tell others when the opportunity presents itself? Such as in conversation with my FAMILY, FRIENDS, or CO-WORKERS. OUCH!!