I love this question. I would want to see the videos, I don't have a problem with porn, I have a problem with ejaculation shot in the face. I think that they "face shots" degrade women.
General sex, Frenchy said it best, "Adult fuck, get over it" .
We live in a society that is very outmoded when it comes to sex and very hypercritical when it comes to women and sex.
I would welcome his honesty, and as long as I knew his medical history, and that he was not lethal, what he did before me is of no consequence to us. Unless he had sex with men, that is where I draw the line, it would be over on the romantic front, but we could be platonic friends