1. Not at all pornstars (amateur or professional) are gangbanged or participate in wild scenes on camera.
2. The big deal seems to be that it is on camera, or more accurately, that someone else knows and can see he/she has done it and by extension, what are they going to think of him/her. You're in a relationship with this person. Who cares what other people think? I think it's a really crazy to breakup with this person or act like it somehow changes the person you were in this great relationship with.
3. In general, women seem to have less of problem pursuing male pornstars, strippers, escorts, etc on relationship terms. Star Jones' husband (allegedly ) used to strip for men. With all the attention she brought on the relationship with her wedding, she simply said "We're both comfortable with his past." That's what I'm talking about! I'm sure there are women who would have a problem with it.
ronin10, why don't you watch porn (if you don't mind my asking)?