quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by folobatuyi:quote:Originally posted by qty226:
this has to do with the fact that he has an agenda, a purpose in life.
He may not make a lot of money.......but hes doing the best that he can, treating me with love and respect...............thats really all i could ask for.
lord I know that there is a wide spectrum of ladies out there but in short when ladies say they want a man with a purpose, the unspoken message...he has to be a professional, CEO, banker, stockbroker etc.
This phrase or statement is confusing, because it has a different meaning for each person.
With that in mind.........i would never 'assume' what her feelings are.
Also.....a professional woman, would be attracted to a professional man.........because of her environment. Her peers are usually professionals.
Im an intern........so who do i meet? Other attorneys or professionals........these are people that i see when im working.
So to me, its not usual for a woman to be attracted to men she see on a daily basis.