quote:Originally posted by qty226:
this has to do with the fact that he has an agenda, a purpose in life.
He may not make a lot of money.......but hes doing the best that he can, treating me with love and respect...............thats really all i could ask for.
I am with Midlifeman on this one....the statement of wanting a man with a purpose in life is quite a vague statement and is one that continues to confuse the hell out of me...don't understand it...Experience has taught me that the concept of what a meaniful purpose for a man varies quite widely between females regardless of race...and it usually entails a minimal of where the lady sees herself...ie if she is a doctor, chances are she would want someone no less than a doctorate. not saying all females are that way..lord I know that there is a wide spectrum of ladies out there but in short when ladies say they want a man with a purpose, the unspoken message...he has to be a professional, CEO, banker, stockbroker etc.