The whole nature of how western women love is entrapment.
Why do you think they put on so much make-up and fake shit? To trap and man.
Then, she gets him and he gets to watch her ass drop when she takes off those tight stretch-pants, bumps and discoloration on her face when she removes the make-up, breasts drop when the bra is gone (smaller, too), she's ALOT shorter without those heels, hair texture is actually coarser than it looks once she sweats out her perm or removes her weave, she don't really smell like that if she don't keep a bottle of something handy, her lips ain't NEARLY as succulent without gloss, no fingernails once they pop off, etc.
It's the biggest lie and the single most dishonest thing in our society - we don't even know what you really look like.
You don't, either.
But, you're lying to us to trap us and you'll be slamming him to marry you so, he'll be stuck. Like vultures, all painted up and desperate and LYING EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.
I think a more honest approach to men and love - starting with being honest with yourself.
Think about it this way:
If you DO catch a man with all the trickery, he'll realized that what was on the outside of the box ain't what's on the inside and have contempt for you and resent being stuck with you and he'll cheat and/or leave.
Women make their owns beds. If you ain't that hot and you paint up and dress up and become hot and pull a hot guy - he's gonna be PISSED when he realizes he's been trapped with you and you ain't even on his level.
What if YOU met a nice buff guy, bulging crotch, perfect hair and skin and married him to find out he's wearing padded shirts and drawls and a wig?
Feel me? It's wrong - so, women are snagging men for the wrong reasons. There's no happy ending to that scenario, just heartache and dysfunction and kids in the middle (maybe, ugly kids, at that...)